Oihara, Chief at Universe Club’s Sendai branch, answers:
I think most women would be happy to know that you’ve given it this much thought. It’s probably not just the amount that matters—the thought behind it would mean a lot as well.
You come across as a kind and considerate person, so I hope you have a wonderful time together.
I’m Meg, a female member.
It simply makes me happy.
Even if we can only meet occasionally, I’m grateful to have a long-distance papa (a male supporter) who still thinks of me!
Though I suppose it’s a little pointless for me to say that while I’m on a break from the site…
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this one too.
Thank you for your question.
I think it depends on the woman.
Some women may hesitate to accept the offer if they’re the type who:
- Feel nervous about meeting too many people and want to achieve their goals while keeping their circle as small as possible
- Feel scared because they don’t know what someone they’re meeting for the first time will be like
That said, I think many women would be happy to have a long-term relationship, but are also fine with men who aren’t looking for that.
Of course, that’s probably because they can still turn someone down after meeting them.
Looking at it from the other side, a man may feel that since he traveled all that way, he’d like to share a bed with her. But please understand that traveling a long distance doesn’t guarantee anything, and there is always a possibility that she may turn you down.
Of course, if you offer more than twice the usual allowance, I doubt she’d refuse unless you’re dressed extremely sloppily. Even so, women are very good at sensing danger, so being gentle, gentle… is probably the basic rule.
If you can meet women from different regions while traveling for work, wouldn’t that be fun?
That led to a conversation like this:
“For example, a man from Fukuoka comes to Tokyo and thinks he’s hit it off with a woman from Tokyo, only to find out she’s actually from Fukuoka. That probably happens all the time, doesn’t it?”
So I thought, maybe things like that do happen.
I look forward to hearing about your nationwide conquest.（笑)
I’m Kazu, a male member.
If you explain during the offer or dinner that you’ve come from far away and this may be a once-in-a-lifetime meeting, the woman can make her decision with that in mind. Any woman looking for a long-term arrangement who would find that inconvenient can simply decline.
