I’m a male member in my early 60s. Thank you, as always, for your helpful answers.

I’m Kazu, a male member. It probably depends on the woman, but I’d be worried that bringing out a toy without warning might put off someone who has never used one before. So I think it’s better to casually bring up whether she has any experience with toys and whether she’d be interested in trying one. If you want to bring it up naturally, a love hotel with a toy vending machine would be a good option. Or, if you happen to see a vending machine at the hotel, you could use that as an opening to talk about toys without making it awkward. If you don’t usually use love hotels, I’d suggest asking her about her feelings toward toys at some point, then bringing a toy you bought on Amazon or somewhere similar the next time you meet—still unopened. Keeping it unopened helps her feel reassured that it’s brand-new. Most toys these days are USB-rechargeable, so don’t forget a USB charger. If it takes batteries, remember to bring those instead. I usually give the toys to the women. One of my partners had a Womanizer, but she said it had broken and stopped working, so I bought her a new one as a gift. Since it cost over ¥20,000, she always brings it when we meet. At first, I helped her climax without toys, but after introducing the Womanizer, I stimulate her manually for a while before using the Womanizer and inserting my fingers vaginally. Personally, I recommend this hybrid approach combining manual stimulation and toys.

I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. When it comes to love hotels, I recommend checking out places like these: - Hotels that provide an electric massager by the bedside - Hotels that give you an adult toy when you check in (or leave one on the bed) - Hotels that prominently advertise toy rentals by the bedside - Hotels with SM rooms equipped with love chairs and the like At places like these, it’s easy to naturally bring up the idea of trying something together, so it might be worth seeking them out. It’s also easy to check whether a hotel has an SM room. Judging from your post, I get the feeling that an electric massager would be the best option for you. Also, > I’m fairly monotonous myself, and she’s almost completely passive. If that’s the case, perhaps your partner is fine with things as they are—or maybe she simply prefers the adult time to be as brief as possible. She may secretly be tired of being kept occupied for a long time with toys, caressing, and so on. Try asking her what she would like to do or what she would enjoy. Deepening your connection in ways other than an adult relationship may also help you build a good relationship. > If that continues for four dates, it won’t be easy to change. Mac, that’s so true. It’s almost as if everything is decided on the first date. There are probably women who are compatible with the questioner’s usual pattern, flow, and technique, so I feel it’s important to become able to judge that from the first meeting. That’s probably one of the advantages of a dating club—you can find someone compatible. (With romantic relationships, you can’t look for someone else while you’re with that person.) > Say things like “You’re cute,” “You’re beautiful,” and “You’re wonderful” out loud about 100 times during a single date. > You catch a fish, then feed it, pamper it, and enjoy it. That’s really important, isn’t it? Saying it 100 times may be difficult, but please say it around 10 times at least—is that too little?

Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here. Thank you for your question. If you’ve been seeing each other properly, I don’t think she’d be put off if you brought an adult toy. That’s because you’ve already built a relationship of trust. On the other hand, if you’ve only recently met, there’s a chance she might be put off, so I think it’s best to be careful. If you’re not sure which situation applies, choose a hotel with vending machines in the room and ask: “Would you like to try something?” If she seems comfortable with the idea, you can buy one there. Once you’ve cleared that hurdle, I don’t think she’d be put off if you brought something with good reviews next time. That said, toys are only a supplement. You are the main attraction, so be careful not to get that the wrong way around. It might help to imagine how you’d feel if a woman brought a TENGA and said, “I’ll use this on you today. Does it feel good?”