A question for the women here: How much personal information do you share with your papas?
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Do you tell them things that could identify you, such as where you live, where you work, or what your previous job was?
Or do you mix in some lies while talking to them, even though it would be really difficult to keep track of them all?
Once, when I exchanged LINE contacts with a papa, my real name was clearly visible (which was my own carelessness), so he searched for me on Facebook and elsewhere and looked into my personal information. That made me wonder how much everyone else shares.
I’m scared my identity will be exposed
I’m Meg, a female member.
Even though my papa gave me his business card with his occupation and real name right from the start, I’ve only told him the name of the club I’m with…
I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I’m sorry…
Please let me confess my sins here…
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, answering as well.
Thank you for your question.
It’s safest not to share that information until you know whether the other person is trustworthy.
There are all kinds of people out there. Some may seem nice at first but suddenly change, so I don’t think you can really know whether someone is safe until you’ve met them several times.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I think it’s best to decide how much personal information to share based on how much you trust the other person, keeping in mind that the relationship may eventually end.
It may not happen often, but stalking is still a possibility, after all...
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I’m Marika, a female member.
You can get into serious trouble if you don’t choose your partners carefully. Someone searched for me using my name and occupation, figured out where I worked, and acted almost like a stalker. It was really creepy. I let my guard down because he had a respectable profession and seemed serious.
These days, I’ve had all kinds of arrangements—from people who know exactly where I live to people who only know my first name. Unless the other person brings it up, I generally don’t ask, and I don’t share much about myself either.
Even if the other person tells you their information, if you’re uncomfortable, I think it’s perfectly fine to use a fake name or be vague about your job.
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I’m a male member who goes by “Paper Airplane.”
Since my LINE account uses my real name, we naturally call each other by our first names.
The women also bring up things like where they live, where they work, and their previous jobs on the first day or soon after.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
This is just my personal opinion, but I don’t mind if someone uses a fake name. However, if it’s obviously a fake name, I feel a little embarrassed saying it out loud—like when it’s clearly a pun on an anime character or celebrity. With women who use names like that, I only ask for their first name.
As for me, I find the surname in my club name awkward to say, and I don’t really like the first name, so I tell the women I meet my real surname instead. (Sorry to the staff member who came up with my club name.)
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