I’m a female member. I know everyone has different opinions, but how many papas do you think is the right number to have?
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Honestly, as long as there’s a good connection, I don’t think there’s any limit to how many I can have.
I currently have five papas (male supporters): three on monthly arrangements and two on a pay-per-meeting basis.
Even so, I still feel somewhat unsatisfied—or maybe I just don’t feel secure enough.
I’m simply curious how many people everyone else is seeing, so I thought I’d ask.
I’m Marika, a female member.
Wouldn’t it be possible if you’re free at night?
If you’re not particularly sharp, don’t you end up forgetting what you talked about? I jot down a few notes, but lately I’ve been meeting more papas who are avid readers, walking encyclopedias, quiz whizzes, or just really intelligent, so the conversations have become harder to follow—and harder to remember.
Maybe my brain is starting to decline…
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Wouldn’t having two or three papas (male supporters) whom you meet twice a month be enough? If you have a regular job, that could amount to more than your salary.
I understand wanting to increase that number, but I think managing your risks is important too. You should consider various factors before deciding how many people to date.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here as well.
Thank you for your question.
> Honestly, if I have a connection with someone, I think it’s fine no matter how many people there are.
I feel the same way.
That said, I often hear that eventually, “your body can’t keep up.”
Getting deeply involved with each person seems to take an incredible amount of energy.
I’ve also heard that it gradually wears you down emotionally. If you’re involved with too many people, it can start to affect your mental health.
So I think you should pay attention to your own emotional well-being, too. If you notice it before things get too bad, taking time to do other things can help you recover.
Take a good look at yourself, and if something feels off, try making time for yourself as well.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
It’s impressive that you’re able to date five people at the same time.
This may sound rude, but people inevitably lose their appeal over time. While there’s still demand for you, you should make the most of it and earn as much as you can.
That said, don’t forget that papas are also seeing multiple women at the same time. If you start treating them carelessly, they’ll quickly move on and spend their money on someone else.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
I usually go on dates once a week, occasionally twice. I meet with existing partners once or twice a month and also want to make offers to new women, so around three feels like the right number for me.
Once I go beyond that, I start feeling full and tired, and I lose the motivation to make an effort for the women. They naturally pick up on that, the relationships fade out, and I end up returning to the right number.
Since the person asking doesn’t seem to be looking for a deep, one-on-one relationship with a particular man, I don’t see why she couldn’t have as many as she wants while she’s young and has plenty of time.
Compared with older men, she has more stamina, and she could even see multiple people on her days off. Personally, I’m not the type to actively pursue lots of relationships, but as long as nobody finds out, I don’t think there’s much difference between having five or ten.
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I’m Fulleren, a male member!
What exactly is making you anxious?
If you don’t mind, could you tell us?
If you have a regular daytime job, for example, wouldn’t things become difficult at work if your number of supporters grew to around 20? Or might other worries arise?
Could it be that you’re always driven by a sense of urgency for some reason, even when you can’t identify why?
By the way, if your concern is financial, you can simply keep adding new people and, once things get too busy, drop the ones who are lower on your priority list. Isn’t that what everyone does?
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
It varies from person to person, but I think around five is probably a reasonable number.
Beyond that, even if you want to take on more, it becomes pretty difficult to expand your circle because of the time and energy involved.
You can’t exactly keep adding more, yet you may also worry about losing someone, so perhaps it’s hard to feel completely secure.
Still, with around five people, you can invest more of yourself and communicate your feelings more easily, which I think makes it easier to maintain the relationships.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it depends on how busy you are with your main job. If you work a regular job, I imagine it would be difficult to manage more than three people you meet every week.
I meet one person every week, and about five others once or twice a month.
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