I casually found out just now that the P I’m seeing has his birthday the day after tomorrow… For those doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), what do you usually give for a birthday? I’d really appreciate it if the men could also share what they’d be happy to receive! When I asked a friend, they said, “It’s probably fine not to give him anything,” but since he brought it up to me, I’m wondering if it’s a sign that he wants me to do something for him… By the way, he’s married, so I feel like I should avoid giving him anything he’d have to keep around. (TT)

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Since you’d already met two days earlier, she may simply have mentioned it casually because bringing it up afterward would have felt awkward. Personally, I don’t need a present. I’d be perfectly happy to receive a congratulatory LINE message the moment the date changes—since I wouldn’t expect it, it would actually be a nice surprise—or just have her celebrate with me and make it a fun time together.

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here. I believe there have been a few questions and answers about gifts, so it might be helpful to take a look at those as well. I think I wrote that a ballpoint pen would be a good choice. I also mentioned using a Jetstream refill, but you don’t have to be that particular—there are plenty of nice options. If it’s made of metal, even something under ¥10,000 should be fine. In the end, it’s the thought that counts.

I’m a male member named Fulleren! I think the answer lies within you—you’re the one who knows and observes your papa (a male supporter) best. Personally, I don’t really need presents, but if I had to choose something tangible, probably stationery. Ballpoint pens are common, but even something like a ruler could work. That said, consumables are probably better, so I’d enjoy sharing a simple homemade cake. I have a sweet tooth. Honestly, wouldn’t it be enough to buy a small cake, top it with white chocolate, and write “Happy Birthday” on it with a chocolate pen? Women often feel good when a man takes the time to plan a date, right? It’s the same idea—when someone’s time and effort are put into a gift, it makes you feel appreciated.