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Sep 28, 2020 12:51
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Most of the questions are so painful to read that I figured I’d become a questioner myself… lol
I’ll be entering my fourth year as a member early next year. How do women generally view men who have been members for a long time?
In my case, during my first phase I served the Date clan of the Sendai domain, during my second phase the Kuroda clan of the Fukuoka domain, and I’m currently assigned to guard the Imperial Palace. I had arrangements with women at each of those locations, but the area around the Palace is quite strict about propriety, so lately I’ve been venturing farther afield.
Although my overall membership history is long, my actual activity in each region is relatively short. Could women misunderstand that and think, “Why hasn’t this man graduated yet?”—putting me at a disadvantage?
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迷わない70代
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パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中(笑)
Age: 70 or older
👨 Male
Former Universe member
I’m a lost man in my 60s.
Thank you all for your answers.
I don’t know how much longer I’ll remain a member, but I was quite surprised to learn that, in addition to not being given any information about how long male members have been registered, the information about men sent by the club to women is apparently based on what was provided when they first joined.
I have my profile made public, and I’d been wondering why information I thought I had deleted was still being passed on to women as club information. This question has finally cleared that up.
Mr. Maezawa, at the very least, don’t you think the club should cross-check the information it has on file before sending details about men with public profiles to women? …Though I suppose I shouldn’t be asking a question in the answer section… (^◇^;)
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🏅 明け方に低頻度で浮上する回答者です
細く長く続けばいいなあ
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fullerene, a male member!
Speaking fundamentally, it also seems a little odd to assume that male members weren’t active at all before joining Universe.
So I feel like it would have very little impact. What do you think?
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this one too.
Women probably won’t know how long you’ve been a member unless you tell them yourself.
I’m not sure what would happen if you went out of your way to mention it, but I don’t think it would put you at much of a disadvantage.
That said, if you’re a man who isn’t well regarded by women, they might wonder if that’s why you’ve been around for so long.
Normally, even if you’ve been a member for a long time, they’ll probably just think, “Maybe he enjoys dating women?”—though I’m not sure what to say if that’s something they dislike.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
I’m heading into my fourth year as well. I make my profile visible to women I’ve made offers to, but even now, women I meet occasionally ask me, “How long have you been doing this?”
Don’t women know how long a man has been registered in the first place?
I always answer honestly, but I’ve never felt that being in it for a long time worked against me. I suppose the impression it gives depends on the woman.
Some may see it positively, thinking I have a stable income, while others may see it negatively, assuming that women aren’t interested in me—or that I’m just playing around.