I have some concerns about S〇X and would like to ask a question.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who has an interest in BDSM but is too timid to even make things feel vaguely BDSM-like. With my longtime girlfriend, I use handcuffs, wrist restraints, and blindfolds while caressing her, but I can hardly call it BDSM. At most, this wimpy guy can manage is some watersports play in the bathroom. Since all three options—①, ②, and ③—are things that would generally be easy to welcome without any issues, it might be nice to try them together. (Though I can’t really picture a club male getting deeply into BDSM play… I find it easier to imagine a more innocent make-believe romance between lovers…) These days, more love hotels have BDSM rooms equipped with love chairs and X-shaped restraints. Even regular love hotels often offer a wide selection of BDSM gear for rent. You can probably try all kinds of things, such as whips and other items—I don’t remember the types since I wasn’t paying much attention—so perhaps you could explore gradually. Also, most love hotels will hold small bags containing your gear, lubricant, clothing, and so on. You could slowly build up your collection, leave it with them, and expand the variety of items over time. If you meet the same man regularly, it might be a good idea to try different items and gradually build up your collection at the same hotel.

I’m in Seattle. The problem is that you stop at ①. That’s a sign you’re about to climax. It’s okay if a little leaks out. It’s kind of like S&M play, and men enjoy squirting too.

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, answering as well. ① It seems there are quite a few women like that, but unless they meet someone who’s exceptionally good at it, it may be difficult with someone who’s only moderately skilled. Apparently, though, once she’s been opened up, she can enjoy it even with an ordinary partner, so I think it really comes down to whether she happens to meet the right person. ② I imagine some people like things that are a little BDSM-ish—wearing a collar, for example（笑） I don’t think there are many truly serious BDSM enthusiasts at Universe, though it’s possible there may be one by chance. > What would men think of a woman like this? She’d be totally welcome. I think most men would be happy about it. That said, if she says she wants full-on BDSM, a man may feel he won’t be able to satisfy her. So I think she’d be better received if her attitude were more along the lines of, “I simply want to be intimate, and I like things that are a little BDSM-ish.” If she’s looking for something serious, though, I think it would be difficult without entering the BDSM world proper.

I’m Kazu, a male member. Do you masturbate, questioner? A woman who enjoys sex with her partner once told me that masturbation is important if you want to learn how to orgasm. Masturbation is important. I wrote it twice because it matters. I’m looking for a partner like you. I’d love to make you an offer. > Mac Yes, the kind of play you like is different from Yuki’s.

I’m Marika, a female member. I’m sure there are quite a few men who are looking for that kind of play. Since there’s a question section in the mistress profile, why not casually mention it there? The other day, someone asked whether you can tell if a person is S or M when you first meet them. I don’t think you can tell from a photo, but I do think you can tell once you meet in person. When an S and an M make eye contact, it’s almost like they instantly sense the dominant-submissive dynamic between them. You could also test the waters little by little during your usual sex. Rather than suddenly bringing out a whip—which might put some people off—try drawing it out by starting with something cute like, “Hit me.” It might work out that way, so I guess the three questions were really just one!? As for me, I’m neither S nor M. I’m perfectly normal—just slightly more on the M side than right in the middle. Probably, haha.