Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer this one too.
> If someone asks, “Where did you two meet?” and you say, “At Universe Club,” I’m sure Mr. Maezawa and Mr. Kida would be delighted.
We would. (笑)
Hmm?
So does that mean we should ask a swingers’ bar to let us leave some Universe Club application forms there?
Thank you. (笑)
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Your first visit to a swingers’ club is exciting, nerve-racking, and thrilling, isn’t it?
Influenced by Mac’s column in the same way, I recently went to a swingers’ club for the first time with a female club member I’m seeing.
Since it was my first time, I started by researching everything before even mentioning it to her—and that alone was enough to get my heart racing. I also wondered how she would react when I brought it up. I could sort of imagine her response, but not really, which made me nervous too.
Wait, was I already getting excited before even meeting and talking to her?
Yes, you really do have to do quite a bit of research: the club itself, information about it, its posted rules, updates about who’s planning to visit, and so on.
When I met her and brought it up, she immediately said, “I’d like to go.” So we went to the swingers’ club that very evening. Women also have to show identification, which I was actually quite happy about. She said she’d like to go again, so I’m looking forward to our next visit.
I also mentioned the swingers’ club to another female club member I’m currently seeing, and she said she’d like to go as well.
If you’re seeing a club member and the relationship is going well, I don’t think she’d have much reason to turn you down.
It might be worth bringing it up with someone you’ve been seeing for a long time.
P.S.
When it’s a woman’s—or a man’s—first time, I think it’s perfectly normal for her to freeze up, keep all her clothes on, and want to leave soon after arriving. So it seems best to go with someone you already have enough of a relationship with to help her relax and open up. Otherwise, she may leave thinking, “That place was impossible—I didn’t belong there,” without discovering anything enjoyable about it, and never go back.
I think it’s a good idea to go once with a female club member and experience it for yourself.
Once you’ve seen how a woman can freeze up, you’ll probably understand what Mac wrote about starting by taking your clothes off right away being the key to avoiding that initial barrier.
Once a woman crosses that line, she can really come out of her shell and become much more proactive. If you can remove that barrier, a swingers’ club can become a truly worthwhile experience.
I also feel that it can add a richer, more intense dimension to the time the two of you spend together outside the club.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
The woman I went on a date with recently had assumed that at a lifestyle club, you had to take your clothes off and participate, so although she was curious, she felt a little hesitant.
When I explained that she wouldn’t have to undress or do anything, she said she’d like to try going sometime. I’m looking forward to seeing her reaction when I take her to one.
Of course, I doubt women who aren’t particularly curious would be the ones to suggest going in the first place.
