Recently, a woman I’ve been seeing asked me to teach her golf, so I’m going to accompany her for her first round.

My name is Kurosaki, and I’m the chief at the Osaka branch of Universe Club. I can’t say whether she “needs” an allowance, but I imagine she probably does want one. Whether you choose to give her one is entirely up to you! It also depends on her personal views, so if you’re unsure, it may be best to ask her directly☆ I hope you continue to build a great relationship!!!

I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this one too. When meeting through a dating club, I don’t think there are many men who would refuse to pay an allowance just because a woman asks them to teach her about intimacy. If you interpret “I want you to teach me golf” as meaning she wants to learn as part of a date and play a round together, then I think it would be safest to give her an allowance. If she truly didn’t want one, she would probably say that simply being taught was enough. Whether it works to say, “I made you feel good, so no allowance,” or “I treated you to an expensive meal, so no allowance,” or generally, “I did something for you, so no allowance,” depends on the relationship between the two people. That said, I think it’s always best to keep in mind that you’re seeing each other on the understanding that an allowance will be given.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. If it’s bothering you, I feel like it might be better to give her a little something. If you’ve known each other for a long time, it shouldn’t really matter either way, so I’m a bit curious about the “recently” part—is your arrangement old or new? I wonder whether she’s just naturally like that or being greedy… It might be better not to give her anything for now and instead thank her and see how she reacts. Holding back a little could help you gauge her response.

I’m Flagmaker, a column writer. If it were me, I’d ask, “Is an allowance necessary?” if I had the courage to bring it up. If I didn’t, I’d probably just pay the allowance.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I thought about what I would do in that situation. If she were someone I had an adult relationship (intimate) with, I’d have an adult relationship (intimate) after golf and give her the allowance for that. If she were someone I didn’t have an adult relationship (intimate) with, I’d ask her how she felt about the allowance. Alternatively, I might say nothing, give her an allowance after the round, and use her reaction as a basis for deciding whether to continue seeing her. Thinking back, the day before yesterday I gave the adult allowance to a woman who talked with me in my room and stayed beside me while I slept—or rather, I dozed off while we were just relaxing. Yesterday, I gave the adult allowance to a woman who went into a mixed bath with me, though there were two people between us. Seeing “alligators” in person for the first time was quite an interesting experience. Apparently, I give an allowance when I’ve had an enjoyable time. Maybe you could use whether you had fun as your criterion for deciding whether to give an allowance. If you’re wondering, “What are alligators?” try searching for “mixed bathing alligators.” I’d heard of them before, but it was my first time actually seeing them, so I found it interesting.