I was thrilled when a woman I was interested in—whom I’d assumed had left the service—reappeared, only to discover that she’d changed to Type A. I’m wondering whether I should still make an offer even without intimacy. (I’m an idiot for missing my chance to make an offer when she was Type C before taking a break.)
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Have any of you ever regretted not making an offer?
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
In my case, there have been several times when I added a new member I liked to my favorites, thinking I’d make an offer when I had time, only to find that she had already left the site.
- Maybe she met a good papa and quit?
- Maybe she had a bad experience with a strange papa and got fed up?
I sometimes let my imagination run wild and end up regretting it.
As for this case, if she changed from C to A, then imagining the reasons for the change:
- Maybe she met a papa once but realized an adult relationship wasn’t going to happen.
- Maybe she had an unpleasant experience.
If that’s the reason, an adult relationship would probably be very difficult. If H were a possibility, I’d think she might change to B instead.
For me, since papa-katsu is based on an adult relationship, I’d give up and wait for another girl I like with a C rating to join.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
> I’m wondering whether I should make an offer even without [that].
If you spend about six months taking her out for dinner and getting to know her, there’s a chance things may progress beyond that.
(If you can read the moment when her feelings begin to change, she may warm up to you before the six months are up.)
If you feel you’d be comfortable with that, I think you should make the offer and go on dates with her.
But if you feel that kind of arrangement doesn’t align with what you’re looking for, it may be better not to make the offer.
That said, you might later find yourself thinking, “Maybe it could have worked if I’d made the offer.”
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This lost 60-something finally made the long trip to Nagoya.
(“Long trip”… only she knows the real story… lol)
I almost regretted not making an offer, but somehow managed to avoid that fate.
I wonder if I’ll become brothers with Mac and Kazu… lol
P.S.
Thank you, Mac.
I’m still only a prospective brother, though… (^◇^;)
Hopefully, someday soon… looking forward to it!
Kazu, I look forward to it with you too!
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
> Changing from Type C to Type A
I think you may have found someone you really like.
Or perhaps you’re widening your search to include women who are even more appealing—or maybe you simply want to enjoy dinner dates with other women as well. I think it’s probably one of those.
Even Type C women will turn someone down sometimes, so it might be worth taking your time and showing her how you feel.
When it comes to a favorite, I think it’s okay to pursue her with enough determination to “win her away,” so to speak（笑）
> Regretting not making an offer
I’ve decided not to make offers while I’m seeing someone, so I wouldn’t call it regret—but it may happen from time to time（笑）
Sometimes a favorite suddenly disappears（tears）
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I’m Kazu, a male member who’s also had the experience of making an offer and regretting it.
She was listed as Type C, but in reality, she may have been Type A. Maybe it was for the best that I didn’t make the offer after all.
Cheers!
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I’m the sleepy meatball, a male member who was just mocked by his wife with, “You sleep all the time like a newborn!” Wait, was it a paper airplane…? Looks like I’m getting senile…
I’m always asleep, so I never have time to go on dates…
So, um, like Mac, I regret making offers, but I don’t remember ever regretting not making one… My senility must be getting worse…
To the person asking: since she was originally a C, I think it’s fine to make an offer without assuming she’s a true A. Even now, I think she’s both an A and a C.
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