Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
> Is it okay to bring up whether an adult relationship is possible, as well as the allowance amount in that case, during the first online date?
Unlike a regular date, the usual approach is to enjoy a normal conversation over a meal.
If you focus too much on discussing an adult relationship from the very first date, women are more likely to feel uncomfortable. So, toward the end of the meal, shortly before parting, you might say something like:
“If we move on to an adult relationship from the next date onward, I was thinking of an allowance of around ___ . Would that be acceptable?”
With an online date, the online date itself is considered the first date—in terms of how an escort club would view it.
That means the next date counts as the second date, even if it’s the first time you meet in person. Since the club’s customary 5,000–10,000 yen transportation allowance would not apply, the two of you need to discuss and agree on the amount.
For that reason, I think it’s common to discuss this during the first online date, so it should be fine to bring up the adult relationship then as well.
Unlike a regular date, one advantage of an online date is that it makes it easier to have that kind of conversation.
That said, the most important thing is not making the woman uncomfortable. Even if something is described as acceptable in a Q&A response, she may still file a complaint if she personally dislikes it.
Please be as humble and considerate as possible when bringing it up, and make sure to confirm her feelings without making her uncomfortable.
My name is Kurosaki, and I’m the manager of the Osaka branch of Universe Club.
That’s a difficult question…
The reason is that every woman may interpret and feel differently about it, so it’s hard to give a definitive answer.
This may be slightly off topic, but the club considers an online date to be the first meeting, while some women feel that the day they meet in person is their first date.
On the second date—or what some women consider their first date—there are also women who still aren’t considering an adult relationship (intimate).
With that in mind, even if you bring up an adult relationship during the online date, I think it would be best to keep it light, just as a feeler.
Alternatively, it may be best to ask the woman directly about her thoughts and feelings.
Thank you for your understanding.
I’m a male member who goes by Paper Airplane.
If you casually bring up the allowance and she responds, she’s essentially a Type C, so it may be possible to discuss it in that case.
With Type B women, though, you usually won’t get any response at all when you bring up allowance, so I don’t think you need to push the issue online.
If you ask, “So, are you essentially Type A?” most women choose Type B because they want to receive offers, so they’ll probably either become flustered or honestly answer that they’re Type A. (Paper Airplane mainly goes for Type B rather than Type A…)
In fact, there are quite a few women who are essentially Type A rather than standard Type A, so if you’re hoping for something closer to Type C, it might be better to confirm that beforehand.
Also, since Type B women tend to be very cautious and wary, I feel that smoothly moving into an arrangement with them requires showing how serious you are—and how much you genuinely like them. So I think it’s important to carefully consider how interested you really are. It seems to make a big difference in how well things go online and during the first date, as well as in your motivation to continue the arrangement.
