If I meet a woman through a setup and she turns me down, does that mean there’s no second setup—in other words, is the prepaid setup fee considered used once the introduction is made?
I understand if it’s unavoidable when I’m the one who turns her down, though.
My name is Kurosaki, and I’m the chief at Universe Club’s Osaka branch.
The club charges male members a “setting fee,” so once you meet, the arrangement is considered established and the fee is incurred.
When you say “if the woman turns you down,” do you mean conversation, dinner, or an adult relationship (intimate)?
Women agree to the meeting on the assumption that they will set aside four hours, so they will not refuse conversation or dinner. Please rest assured!
If you’re asking about being turned down for an adult relationship (intimate), that is completely out of the question, so please refrain from joining the club.
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I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well.
Universe Club arranges meetings between men and women, including dinner.
Therefore, once the man and woman meet, the arrangement is considered complete.
If the woman doesn’t show up or they otherwise fail to meet, the arrangement has not been completed, so the man can arrange a meeting with another woman on a different day.
Being turned down after meeting? That’s between the two of them. What they do is entirely up to them.
So if she turns him down at that point, it means the man simply didn’t make his approach well enough.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
If you’ve joined a dating club, don’t be stingy over something as minor as the setting fee!
Once an arrangement begins, the funds you initially planned for it will probably run out sooner than expected. But you’ll also get to experience things you can only experience through a dating club.
It’s fun.
There are women of a certain age who seem to hit it off with you at the first meeting, then suddenly start making outrageous demands two or three days later and quit the club. There are also women who keep stringing you along with, “I’m a slow starter…”—people who may be suspected of pulling a dating-type scam.
And then there are straightforward women who say, “Are you okay with an adult relationship (intimate)?” and, when you reply, “Sure (laughs),” simply go along with it.
These are experiences you could never have in the ordinary social life we lead. You’re guaranteed to have some truly memorable experiences! (laughs)
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This is Sakurai from the staff.
A “setting” is considered complete once you meet the woman, so we do charge a setting fee. We understand that there may be times when you don’t click and decide to decline.
If we could guarantee that a couple would be formed—not just arrange the meeting—we wouldn’t need this many staff members.
Because things don’t always work out, some of our staff work hard during interviews, thinking, “I want to introduce him to a wonderful woman next time…” Others have to steel themselves and contact female members with warnings after receiving complaints from male members.
(Though in the end, we often get criticized with comments like, “The staff don’t take responsibility anyway,” which really hurts.)
＼That’s what a dating club is!／
Thank you for your kind consideration!
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“I’m useless whether I’m here or not, so get out and go to work!”—after being chased out by his wife, male member Meatball—I mean, Paper Airplane—is off on a date.
With that mindset, you’re better off going to an adult entertainment establishment. If that’s your premise—that certain things are simply expected—you could very well be rejected 100% of the time.
You also need to understand that even just meeting someone for the first time costs more than 5.6 times the price of adult entertainment.
That’s because you keep looking until you find someone you feel is a good match.
So if a woman can’t be patient, it’s better for her to decline. And if she doesn’t like the chemistry, she should be honest and say no. That way, both people have a better chance of finding someone compatible and enjoying themselves.
I think it’s best to choose the type of service that suits your own goals.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
That should go without saying, right?（笑） If you pay, the place where you can almost certainly get off is an adult entertainment establishment.
If you think that paying means she automatically owes you an adult relationship (intimate), things probably won’t work out, so you’re better off avoiding this.
If you feel the setup fee is too expensive, an exclusive dating club probably isn’t for you either. This is a place for people who can laugh it off even after paying a ¥50,000 setup fee for a date with a woman who gets on their nerves. That said, I’ve never actually been annoyed, though I have been disappointed when a very professional-looking papa-katsu woman showed up.
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