I'm open to an adult relationship (intimate), but are most of the men registered here like the ones described in the posts—wanting to train their partners or looking for something sexual right from the start?
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I completely understand why you’re concerned. There are certainly several posts describing some pretty extreme things (lol).
I don’t know how many members are looking for that kind of extreme arrangement, but they do exist. That said, it’s also true that not everyone is like that.
Even if it’s called club activity, it’s ultimately just a place for men and women to meet. Whether you find someone who’s right for you comes down to luck.
You’re the one who gets to decide whether to actually meet and move on to an adult relationship (intimate), so you should simply choose someone who won’t cause you stress.
If you’re not comfortable with anything extreme, I think one option is to discuss that beforehand, before things progress in that direction.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here—I’ll answer as well.
I don’t hear much about “training,” so I suspect there aren’t many male members who are interested in that.
There do seem to be quite a lot of sexually minded men, but if they’re already looking for an adult relationship (intimate), you could say they already have those kinds of feelings. So I think there are probably fewer men who aren’t seeking something erotic.
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I’m a male member, Fullerene!
You should sign up.
Marika mentioned attracting the right people, but I think that can be controlled to some extent.
Female members can also shape their profiles to reflect the image they want through the “Mistress Personality Questionnaire,” the comments section, and selfies.
If you’re looking for someone into training, for example, writing, “Looking for a master who can train me!” would probably have people lining up to contact you...
I also think the staff’s comments can influence the type of members you attract, so you might want to discuss them during your interview.
(That said, the more suggestive your profile is, the more offers you’ll probably receive.)
Good luck with the video shoot and everything.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I consider it lucky if there’s some chemistry from the start, but I don’t want to “train” anyone. The moment someone casually says, “I want to train her,” you can tell what kind of person he is. He could at least say, “I want us to enjoy some naughty things together.”
In the question, “naughtiness” refers to things like “wanting her to kiss me” or “wanting her to go down on me at least once, even if she’s completely passive”—things she might naturally do without having to ask. I’ve never met a woman who wouldn’t kiss me or wouldn’t do that. My honest reaction is, “Wait, are there really women who won’t?”
There are probably some older guys whose fantasies run wild, but I think only a small minority actually lose control in front of female members. If your partner happens to be one of them, please set him straight and teach him how to be a true gentleman with a naughty side.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I think there are all kinds of male members. Some are very enthusiastic about exploring the BDSM and erotic side of things, while plenty of others aren’t. I don’t think you have too much to worry about.
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I’m Marika, a female member.
There probably aren’t many men who say they want to “train” someone, and I’ve never met one through the club. But girls who get involved with that kind of thing probably attract men who are interested in it based on their looks and overall vibe. So if you give off that kind of impression, you may find that one man after another tells you he wants to “train” you.
If you’ve had boyfriends like that before, you might come across the same type through the club as well.
As for whether they’re erotic—well, they’re all pretty erotic.
Maybe I attract that type too, and since I’m perfectly fine with it, it’s not a problem for me at all.
There may be sophisticated older gentlemen who are generous with gifts and allowances, treat you kindly and like a girlfriend, and don’t wear their sexuality on their sleeve. But whether you’ll meet one depends on your own qualities and a bit of luck!
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
I’m sure many male members are looking for something physical, but some are probably seeking an “affair-like emotional connection” more than anything else.
You never know what kind of man you might meet, but you won’t have the chance to find someone wonderful unless you take the first step.
So please gather your courage and apply for an interview(^^)
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who’s been worried about the economy because the roads have been practically empty since September.
I figure the people posting these questions are probably asking because they can’t train their partners or fulfill their own desires, so in a way, there may not be any need to worry after all.
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