I’m a female member who joined the club a week ago.

The other day, I finally received my first offer, but for various reasons, I didn’t think I could meet the man’s expectations, so I turned it down. I haven’t started participating yet—not even once. If I receive another offer but feel that we may not be a great match, should I still try meeting him for dinner, just to get a feel for how things work…? I’m also worried about whether I’ll receive any more offers, so I decided to ask…