I’m the Type B female member who asked about a papa who wouldn’t discuss the allowance.
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Thank you to all the male and female members and staff who took the time to respond.
The man in his 60s I’ve been having meals with can sometimes be overbearing, and I don’t really enjoy talking with him. However, because of his age, I haven’t been able to simply ignore him, so I’ve already met him three times just for meals.
We’re planning to meet for another meal soon, but if he still doesn’t bring up the allowance next time I ask, I think I’ll decline any further meetings.
The advice about giving feedback to the branch was also very helpful.
Thanks to everyone, I was able to make a decision.
I truly appreciate it.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Thank you for the update. As someone who often wonders what happened after a question is posted and never gets to find out, I’m glad to hear the follow-up.
You seem to be such a kindhearted person that one could almost call you a pushover. As I mentioned in my previous answer, I find it puzzling that you’ve met someone like that three times already. And I still find it surprising that you’re considering meeting him a fourth time.
That said, there are people in this world who take on challenges others tell them to avoid and ultimately come out victorious. So I’m not going to say whether you should meet him or not. I just can’t help feeling that it’s quite risky.
Please be careful and stay safe. And if you find out why he was so adamant about not discussing the allowance, I’d appreciate it if you’d let us know.
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I’m in Seattle.
Before your fourth meeting, ask in advance whether this time is dinner only, or whether it will continue afterward as well.
If you can’t agree on the terms, apologize and cancel.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
If you don’t feel like you click with him, I think it’s fine to leave his messages unread—or read without replying—and move on without meeting him again.
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