I’m a male member. Lately, I’ve awakened to training inexperienced women. I’d like to ask those with more experience: is it better to be intense with them right away or gradually raise the level—which approach makes them more obedient? Of course, I’m talking about situations where we’ve gotten to know each other and built a relationship of trust.

I’m Rin, a female member. Honestly, you come across as very self-centered. The whole “me, me, me…” attitude—and casually writing about “training” someone while practically puffing out your nostrils—doesn’t come across as attractive. Especially when you don’t have much experience, shouldn’t you take things slowly and treat her with care while feeling things out? If you’re thinking, “I’m giving her an allowance, so she should do what I want,” then you’d be better off looking for someone who can play the innocent, inexperienced girl well and is willing to meet those expectations. By the way, saying things like, “Say ‘○○’… otherwise, I won’t give you anything,” is pretty common. But before the relationship is firmly established, it can be a major turnoff internally. And if someone keeps pushing it, you might as well be saying it to five Yukichi bills. I’ve asked several young women who are often made to say things like that, and they felt the same way. So please take note, questioner.

I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well. For example, trying to make a beginner lift a 100 kg barbell right away would obviously be difficult. In any field, I think the basic approach is to watch the other person and gradually help them progress. Of course, whether you take a boot-camp approach during that process is another question. > “I don’t have any feelings, but my body is reacting! Ahh!” is an adult-video trope and mostly a fantasy, so be careful. Though there are very rare people who are actually like that... I’m not sure whether it’s a talent they were born with.

I’m Flag Maker, a columnist. First and foremost, it’s important that she genuinely wants to feel more pleasure. So please be gentle and attentive with her. ^^; “Even though I’m not emotionally into it, my body still reacts! Ahh!” is a porn trope and mostly a fantasy, so keep that in mind.

I’m joining the ranks of the answerers as of today. I’m Fulleren, a male member—nice to meet you! (I get turned down pretty often, so I came up with this name. lol) That said, judging from your question, it seems you’re attracted less to “a submissive girl after being trained” and more to the process of training someone with little experience itself. If that’s the case, wouldn’t it be better to take your time and gradually level things up? If you’re climbing a mountain, I imagine you’d enjoy the experience more on foot than by gondola.

I’m Kazu, a male member. If you’re beginning to discover an interest in training someone, why not experiment and figure out what works for yourself?

I’m Kamihikōki, a male member whose hair is starting to fall out over this incredibly contradictory question. If she doesn’t have much experience, I feel she’ll only be guided in one direction, but setting that aside— If there’s already a relationship of trust, she’ll also make a devoted effort, so either way is fine. When there’s that level of trust and affection, I think it’s best for both of you to make the effort to build a bond that makes you want to keep meeting just as things are now, while thinking together about how to make it something you look forward to. From there, you can slowly move on to the next stage. If she’s a woman you currently find attractive, then she’s probably either inexperienced or simply not very expressive yet. With just a little encouragement, she may undergo a more enjoyable and appealing transformation. I don’t think it matters whether the changes happen in her or in you. And of course, it’s important that your satisfaction continues to grow—in fact, that’s the most important thing, isn’t it? To achieve that, you need to bring her along at your preferred pace and pattern so that she also becomes more engaged. In other words, as you refine and improve your own approach through creativity and experimentation, she’ll become more engaged, and ultimately you’ll feel more fulfilled as well. If you feel that things are still somewhat lacking and that she’s still developing, the most important thing is to praise her in a way that conveys how satisfied you are with her—even if it’s something you’re looking forward to in the future—and to show, through your expression, that you genuinely cherish her. Please give her plenty of reassurance that she is needed.