I’m Tetsu, a male member.
Getting two offers is probably still pretty good. That said, I think it’s great that you’re taking action because you want more offers.
When it comes to getting more offers, the first thing you should do is talk to the staff at your branch. They’re people too, so they should be willing to help someone who’s making a sincere effort.
Updating your selfies and profile comments is fine, but if you update them too frequently, you may somehow come across as a little cheap.
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Have you been contacting the staff and asking them for advice?
When the staff take an interest in you, your profile gets displayed at the very top—on a computer, you’re the first person listed above the new members—so I think it will increase your exposure.
As for updating your comments, I’d say about once every three weeks, and selfies every two to three weeks. If you post too frequently, people may start thinking, “Oh, them again,” which could end up working against you.
Also, I think the most effective thing is having your photos retaken, so if it’s been bothering you, I’d recommend going in for a reshoot sometime around February.
One more thing: haven’t your comments gotten a little too long?
I think it’s better to keep them light and just leave enough to spark people’s imagination—that tends to make them more curious.
For your selfies, try to avoid photos with similar expressions or poses. It’s better to include a variety of shots from different distances and angles, including some that look like ordinary everyday photos.
I’ll answer this as “Maezawa from the president’s office.”
You’ll receive the most offers during your first month after registering, and they tend to decrease after that.
For example, it might look like:
2 offers, 0, 0, 1, 0, 0, 1, 0…
In some cases, the very first offer may not come until six months later.
Recently, more people have been uploading beautiful photos that look like they were taken with a professional camera. But if you’re uploading heavily edited smartphone selfies like people used to, adding more photos can actually have the opposite effect.
So if you’ve uploaded edited selfies, I recommend deleting them. On the internet, overly flattering photos where it’s hard to tell whether they’re really you may be common, but at Universe, few men like that kind of photo.
You’re better off presenting yourself with proper, natural-looking photos.
I haven’t seen the comments, so I can’t say for sure, but it’s uncommon for comments alone to make men lose interest. It could be an issue with your selfies, or perhaps one of your two dates left negative feedback, which is why the offers stopped coming.
That said, as mentioned above, some people receive no offers for about two months and then start getting them sporadically.
I think it would be worth deleting the selfies and seeing how things go.
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m sorry, but I can’t really answer without knowing what your profile is like. That said, getting two offers in about two months seems like a fairly decent result to me.
