Nice to meet you. I’m a female member with dating type C, and I always enjoy reading the Q&A box.
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I’m happy to say I’ve received an offer, but there’s something I’m worried about, so I’d really appreciate everyone’s advice.
I really enjoy sex, and I’m hoping to meet someone wonderful through this service.
However, because I enjoy it so much, once I get turned on, I squirt and lose control of my bladder. It happens when I’m being licked, when I’m being fingered, and during penetration—every time (; ;)
I wondered if I might be too loose, but I’ve been told that things move inside me and that I’m actually quite tight.
In private, I can enjoy myself without worrying when I’m with someone I’m compatible with. But when meeting someone through this service, I’m unsure when I should tell them so they won’t be put off.
Should I mention it when I receive the offer?
Write it in my comments?
After we get to the room? Or during the act?
I’m sure some men aren’t looking for someone with that kind of body type. And since it only happens when I get turned on, sometimes everything is perfectly normal, which makes it even harder to explain…
I told them honestly during my interview, so I’m wondering whether it’s been written in my profile.
If it hasn’t, when would male members prefer me to bring it up?
Also, if there are any other female members in a similar situation, I’d love to hear how you handle it.
I’m a male member.
When it’s squirting, it comes out cleanly and doesn’t smell, so even after it starts, you can continue without holding back. But you do leak urine too, right?
If you can say “I need to use the bathroom” before it happens, you can gauge his reaction by seeing whether he responds, “It’s okay to do it here.”
As a man, I’d want to see it happen, so I’d probably say “It’s okay here” the first time. From the second time onward, though—since urine comes out more forcefully and there’s a lot more of it and it smells stronger—I think it would be better to discuss where it’s okay to pee.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
> I’m unsure when I should tell him so he won’t be put off.
If you tell him beforehand, he may be disappointed if it doesn’t happen, or he might keep going vigorously until it does because he expects it to happen.
So I think the best time—when he won’t be put off—is after it happens.
Afterward, you could say something like, “I don’t usually do that, so I’m embarrassed that it happened today” (although there’s really nothing to be embarrassed about). That should make him feel satisfied.
From the second time onward, he’ll already know it can happen, so you should be able to enjoy yourselves more naturally, like you would with a private partner.
Even if you don’t mention it beforehand, I don’t think men will be put off. Besides, I doubt there are any guys at Universe who are that inexperienced, haha.
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I’m a columnist and flag-maker.
I’m against giving advance notice, because some men may feel pressured to “make it happen” and end up doing the wrong thing.
I’m in favor of saying “I’m about to” a few seconds beforehand.
That said, three seconds’ notice seems sufficient when using fingers or during penetration. But when oral is involved, I’d prefer five seconds’ notice.
For a man who doesn’t want it on his face, if he hears “I’m about to” five seconds beforehand, I feel he also bears some responsibility if he doesn’t move away. But if it happens after only three seconds’ notice, he might think, “Could you have said that a little sooner? lol”
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I’m Marika, a female member.
I think it would be good to play it as though you’re usually chaste, but become like this when you’re with him. Men are happier being made to feel that it’s because it’s him and because he’s amazing, rather than you being sexy and squirting with anyone, anytime, right?
As Kazu-san suggested, I also think giving him a three-second heads-up is fine.
It would be perfect if you could even act embarrassed, like, “I can’t believe I’ve gotten this worked up (/−＼*).”
And please, whatever you do, don’t walk around the room completely naked afterward without covering anything. Lol.
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My name is Kurosaki from the Osaka branch of Universe Club.
Thank you for your question. I imagine you gave this a lot of thought before reaching out.
For men who are primarily seeking a physical relationship, the information mentioned in your comment may be useful. However, even if you asked me to “tell the man,” I think I might decline.
You mentioned that the staff told you this during your interview, but personally, I wouldn’t include it in your profile. To be blunt, I might consider adding it if that were the only way to highlight your appeal—but if that wasn’t the case (if the switch you mentioned didn’t get turned on), I feel the man might have mixed feelings about it as well...
Compatibility in terms of personality is important too, but I think it’s more enjoyable for both people to meet and find out in person. Personally, if I knew something like that before meeting someone, I might lose interest, so I do think there are things that are better left unsaid♪
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I’m Sakurai from the staff.
Hmm, honestly, I think men would probably appreciate that more than “Honmaguro-san.”
Even without announcing beforehand, “I’m super sensitive and I might squirt, so just so you know!” most people would probably accept it confidently when the moment comes...
If you mention it in advance, it can feel a bit like a predictable adult video plot.
It’s tricky, because promoting yourself too much when it comes to bedroom matters can sometimes backfire. If there are other strengths we can recommend—like being responsive or never canceling—I think the staff in charge will present them well as additional selling points, regardless of your natural tendencies.
Being able to enjoy yourself is a wonderful thing, so what’s wrong with squirting? It feels good, after all.
—Saku no Wai
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’m not sure whether it’s mentioned in the profile, but somehow I doubt they’d get that specific about sexual topics. This isn’t a sex work service, after all.
From what I’ve heard from women, it’s usually just ordinary sex, so I think it’s fine to mention it if you feel like you’re about to switch into that mode during the act. If you tell her beforehand and then start aggressively going at it, all fired up about making her squirt, that would be pretty unpleasant, wouldn’t it? Personally, rather than saying in advance, “I’m going to come,” I think it’s fine to say, “I’m about to come!” about three seconds before.
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