I’m the male member who was judged annoying. When I asked for more specifics about how to make things sexier, I met a student who says she’s never masturbated and doesn’t watch erotic videos (though I do wonder if that’s true), and every time we’re intimate, I’m very, very gentle with her. She’s almost completely passive, but she does her best to go down on me, awkwardly as she is. It doesn’t feel particularly good, but because she’s so awkward, she produces a lot of saliva, so seeing my saliva-covered little man in an erotic state does get me visually excited.
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As for this woman, she has very little sex appeal, but compared with the other women I’m seeing, she’s by far the tightest. She naturally squeezes very tightly, so I’m trying to figure out how to help her become more sensual—or rather, how best to continue seeing her. On the other hand, it’s disappointing that she’s extremely money-focused. She’ll suddenly ask for double the allowance when we had agreed on one-and-a-bit times the usual amount. When that happened, I declined, saying, “I’m sorry, but that’s too much for me.”
Especially to the male members: rather than advice on how to “develop” her from here, I’d appreciate hearing about your own experiences and how you’ve continued seeing someone like this. Female members, if you have any stories about how you became more sensual or were “developed,” I’d love to hear them as well. If increasing the allowance is all it takes to make someone more sensual, doesn’t that make things rather easy—and boring—in a sense? I fully understand that this is a very male perspective.
P.S. Lately, I’ve been looking forward to Kami-hikōki’s usual opening line. Is he being mistreated at home, or is his marriage actually harmonious? Only Kami-hikōki knows.
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
> On the other hand, it’s disappointing that she’s so focused on money. Sometimes, after agreeing to half a hand plus one, she’ll suddenly ask for both hands.
I think you probably have a thing for her despite her many flaws.
When someone is unlike any other woman you’ve met, you may find yourself wishing she didn’t have that particular trait, while also thinking that it’s actually what makes her interesting.
And if she occasionally asks for both hands, it’s possible that’s what she really wants but she’s currently holding back.
If someone else comes along who’s willing to pay her more, she may easily cut you loose, so I think you should be prepared for that—so you won’t regret it later.
> If increasing the allowance makes her more erotic, wouldn’t that be kind of simple and boring?
I don’t think increasing the allowance necessarily makes her more erotic, though…
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member who was reacting to my date with my facial expressions yesterday, only for her to say, “What’s with that weird face? Oh wait—you always make weird faces.”
You may feel that her tightness is so incredible that you’ll never find anyone else like her again.
If that’s how you feel, I think it’s enough to simply be satisfied with that and continue seeing her without getting too greedy.
She’s probably the type who won’t get very worked up even with prolonged foreplay, and honestly, there’s also a chance she may just be enduring some pain while being intimate with you.
Even with someone like that, it’s possible for her to eventually start feeling pleasure and climax after spending many years together, but it still won’t compare to being with someone you’re truly compatible with.
That said, I doubt you’ll ever meet many women whose tightness feels that intense, so I think that alone could be more than enough to make you satisfied.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
After reading everyone’s responses at https://universe-club.jp/help/member/detail/4486, I was impressed by the idea of dating multiple women, focusing on each of their strengths rather than expecting one woman to fulfill every ideal.
If you’re interested in helping a woman become more your type, you’ll probably have to patiently guide her along the way, though it will take time and money. That said, looking for someone who already matches your preferences might be a shortcut. There are many different ways to approach this, so try to find the one that causes you the least stress.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
Although great physical compatibility is hard to give up, I have a set limit, so if that gets rejected and it means saying goodbye, I’ll just move on to someone else.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Rather than focusing on “development” and so on, I think valuing the sense of security (relaxation) and emotions that come beforehand will lead to the next step.
I think “turning someone into a sexy person” is a fantasy from a male perspective. (Though I do think someone can become more erotic than usual in the moment.)
That’s more or less how things work in adult games and porn, too.
People who are naturally erotic probably already have high erotic potential, so maybe they become that way on their own. ^^
I read this in some book, but apparently top-level coaches only coach people who are “coachable.” Even with guidance from an excellent coach, unmotivated people apparently don’t improve.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Increasing the allowance usually doesn’t make most dating partners more sexual, and I also think that for women who are very focused on money, money itself is the more appealing pleasure, so they’re less likely to become intimate.
Personally, I’d either say goodbye because she isn’t someone who can give me what I want, or look for a second dating partner. I believe there are people suited to X, and people suited to Y.
As several respondents mentioned here, it’s probably unrealistic to expect one woman to fulfill everything you want.
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