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I was taking a mistress personality test. There was a question halfway through whose true intent I couldn’t understand—what exactly is it trying to assess?

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① I work diligently toward my goals. ② I have a free and open-minded way of thinking. As for ②, judging from the explanation that follows, it doesn’t seem free-minded at all.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here, with my answer as well. As expected, Kazu—you’ve got it. Though the original source has been exposed(笑) Actually, on the women’s answer forms, it sometimes says things like “Source: XX.” The good thing about this is that each woman interprets it differently, so their answers reflect their individual interpretations. You start to get a sense of what kind of person each woman is, which can also serve as one indicator for men thinking, “I wonder if she’s this kind of woman?” That said, I suspect most men aren’t looking at that part—they’re probably more interested in whether there’s an intimate relationship involved. Personally, I think it’s interesting because I can think, “So this is how she interpreted it, and that’s why she gave this answer.” So, in a way, I think part of the point may be to answer based on your own interpretation of what exactly the question is asking you to answer. It’s probably fine to skip anything you don’t understand, though.
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I’m Kazu, a male member. When I first read the answers to the “mistress profile” quiz, I went to read MENJOY. https://men-joy.jp/archives/73477 https://men-joy.jp/archives/73481 https://men-joy.jp/archives/73488 I believe it was created with these three articles as references. The articles seem to have been updated sometime this year, which may explain why some of the questions differ between the articles and the quiz. ① is number 10 from the article. According to it, “A woman who suddenly discovers the joy of saving money and seriously pores over her bankbook every night has the temperament to be a mistress.” Really? lol ② is number 3 from the article, and seems to be about having a more easygoing, open-minded outlook. The article says: > Since men tend to take on a mistress to escape the daily hassles of life, they apparently don’t often choose women who talk about complicated matters as their mistresses. Well, that may be true. In other words, saying, “I’d feel bad about your wife if I slept with you. Besides, I’m not the kind of woman who sleeps with men that easily,” would be considered a restrictive, closed-minded way of thinking. On the other hand, saying, “I think you should value your family and take good care of it. As long as nothing causes problems at home, let’s enjoy life together,” would probably be seen as a more free and open-minded attitude. Of course, the articles only reflect their authors’ opinions. It doesn’t mean that all male members think that way. I also interpret the “mistress profile” quiz as simply providing a template—or conversation prompts—because it must be difficult for women to write a self-introduction in a completely blank format. I actually enjoy reading the answers, but I think women should just write whatever comes to mind when they see each question. And if you’re unsure how to answer something, I think it’s perfectly fine to skip it. Not many women answer every single question.
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