I’m Kazu, a male member.
The woman I see most often also says that she’s only had offers from me and one other person. From a man’s perspective, it’s a really interesting phenomenon. She’s such a great girl, so I wonder what everyone else is looking at（笑）
Even if a staff member doesn’t have a particularly good personal impression of you, I’m sure they wouldn’t write anything like that in the club’s comments. So if there’s an issue, it’s probably either a mismatch in class or that you don’t quite have the kind of appeal that male members respond to.
There’s only so much you can change about yourself to appeal to male members, and forcing it will only wear you out. So if it’s been more than a year since you registered, why not ask to have your photos retaken and consult with the staff?
If you’re okay with an online date, I’d be happy to make you an offer. During the online date, I can look over your profile and give you advice for up to an hour, within the scope of the rules.
If you’re interested, please contact Maezawa through the inquiry form next to the question box. Tell Maezawa your branch and club name, and ask them to share your profile with me.
When you make the request, you can choose between the strict, no-holds-barred course, where I tell you exactly what I think, and the gentle coaching course, where I give more vague and kindly worded feedback. I’ll respond accordingly.
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
If you consult the club about not receiving any offers, I’m sure they’ll be able to give you some advice.
For men, profile photos, videos, and overall appearance carry a lot of weight when deciding whom to approach. However, your personality and other aspects of your character also factor into their decision. I think it’s important to regularly update your private photos and comments to showcase yourself. If a profile never gets updated, men may start wondering, “Are you even motivated?”
This is just my personal impression, but some women use heavily edited photos for their public private photos, and those profiles seem to get fewer “likes” from men. Photos that offer a glimpse of what a woman really looks like in everyday life seem to receive more likes.
There are around 7,000 female members, so you need to make sure you don’t get lost among all the others.
I hope you meet someone great in the future.
Maezawa from the President’s Office here, answering as well.
It’s unfortunate that the dates didn’t work for you, but since you still received two offers, I don’t think you were completely without opportunities.
There’s a saying:
“Opportunity has hair only on the front of its head and is bald in the back. If you meet it, seize it by the forelock. Once you let it get away, not even God can catch it.”
I hope you’ll do your best to make the most of your opportunities.
