I love getting all cuddly and affectionate with one particular papa (a male supporter)—sitting face-to-face on his lap like a couple who just started dating. What are your favorite ways and situations for being affectionate??
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By the way, this papa only touches me when we’re at a hotel or at home.
Very occasionally, he’ll hug me or give me a light kiss somewhere with no one around, but I think that’s probably because he’s had a few drinks.
I keep telling myself that we don’t have to be affectionate in public, but what should I do when I get the urge to be close to him..?
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
We don’t even hold hands outside, but these days, with COVID, even the main downtown areas of Kyoto and Osaka can be nearly deserted. Sometimes there isn’t a single person in front of us or behind us.
At times like that, we naturally end up walking hand in hand.
Even the stone-paved slopes of Ishibei-koji can feel like they’re reserved just for us…
It’s like having the place all to ourselves for a movie or TV shoot—actually, it’s probably even quieter, since there isn’t a soul around.
You can kiss, hug, or be as affectionate as you like along those atmospheric wooden walls and stone-paved slopes.
Apparently, it’s normally so crowded that it’s difficult even to walk, so this is a rare opportunity while it lasts.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I don’t initiate affection in public either, and I don’t hold hands. I do like being affectionate and holding hands, but I have a reason for not doing it in public: I don’t want the woman to attract curious looks from people around us.
It would look strange for a man and woman with a significant age gap to be openly affectionate. I also worry about accidentally running into someone she knows, so I can’t bring myself to initiate it. If the woman takes the initiative and holds my hand, though, I’m happy to go along with it.
I think your papa (a male supporter) probably does like touching you. Why not try hugging his arm tightly when you’re out together? You might get a sense of how he really feels.
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I’m Kazu, the type of male member who only gets affectionate in bed.
Doing that in public is out of the question! We’d look ridiculous to anyone watching. We don’t even hold hands outside.
That said, if we went to a country where age-gap couples openly show affection, I might be more affectionate in public.
I do enjoy playful, risqué teasing on nights out, like having her use a remote-controlled vibrator.
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Maezawa from the Executive Office will answer as well.
> By the way, that papa (a male supporter) only touches me when we’re at a hotel or someone’s home.
Generally speaking, supporters like that tend to be more popular. If you get overly affectionate in public, other people may wonder, “What are they doing?”
The fact that he’s considerate enough to be mindful of that makes him seem like a man with good boundaries.
> What should I do when I get the urge to cuddle up to him?
I think you could simply say, “I’d like to go somewhere we can be alone.”
Since we all live alongside other people, a basic level of manners is necessary. If you’re overly affectionate in public, ordinary people are likely to frown.
But if you’re somewhere private, there’s no need to hold back.
You could also steal a quick cuddle when no one is looking.
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
If it’s only once in a while, what’s the harm! It doesn’t seem like anyone’s noticed, so please cut him some slack（笑）
I’m getting on in years myself, but I can’t say I dislike it either...
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