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Sep 3, 2020 19:11
I’d like to ask women who currently have—or have had—multiple papas: Do you have a priority order among them? Have any of your papas ever complained about it?
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I’m currently being supported by three men, and I prioritize them when deciding when and how often to meet.
My top priority is the one who gives me the largest allowance, and I plan my schedule around him. I signed up for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because I needed the money, so I naturally place more importance on the one who pays the most. It would probably be better if I could treat them equally, but although I’m grateful to them, I don’t have any romantic feelings for them at all, so it’s difficult.
My third papa gives me the lowest allowance, and we aren’t very compatible physically, so I inevitably end up seeing him less often. However, he makes snide remarks about it every time we meet.
I’ve told him that I need the money, but he says he can’t increase my allowance and still wants to see me more often. What should I say to convince him?
I’d appreciate any advice.
It would be difficult to break things off with him until I meet someone better.