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I’d like to ask women who currently have—or have had—multiple papas: Do you have a priority order among them? Have any of your papas ever complained about it?

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I’m currently being supported by three men, and I prioritize them when deciding when and how often to meet. My top priority is the one who gives me the largest allowance, and I plan my schedule around him. I signed up for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because I needed the money, so I naturally place more importance on the one who pays the most. It would probably be better if I could treat them equally, but although I’m grateful to them, I don’t have any romantic feelings for them at all, so it’s difficult. My third papa gives me the lowest allowance, and we aren’t very compatible physically, so I inevitably end up seeing him less often. However, he makes snide remarks about it every time we meet. I’ve told him that I need the money, but he says he can’t increase my allowance and still wants to see me more often. What should I say to convince him? I’d appreciate any advice. It would be difficult to break things off with him until I meet someone better.
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I’ll answer too—Maezawa from the CEO’s office. It’s only natural to have priorities. Whether yours are based solely on money or on both money and personality is entirely up to you. You mentioned that you feel grateful, and I think that’s more than enough. As long as you don’t forget that feeling, the papa (male supporter) you’re seeing is probably enjoying your time together too. > What should I say to persuade my papa, who says he can’t increase my allowance but wants to see me more often? Maybe a little shock therapy? “Unless the allowance is ¥〇〇, it’s difficult for me to meet frequently. But because you’re kind, I’m willing to meet even with the current allowance. However, if you keep asking to meet even more often, I won’t be able to see you anymore.” Something along those lines, perhaps? If that ends up leading straight to a breakup, then you probably weren’t valued that much in the first place, so I think it’s okay to let things end. On the other hand, if he says, “I understand. I won’t ask for more,” then you should be able to continue seeing each other normally. That said, someone like this will probably bring it up again after a while. You may have to bring up ending things each time, or otherwise find a way to handle it smoothly.
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