Karpador kisses, licking my nose, licking my face, sucking on my tongue… How can I gently tell a man who keeps pressuring me to kiss during sex that I want him to stop?

This is Sakurai from the staff. > “Yeah, I know,” he said, but nothing changed. Lol, he really doesn’t get it at all. It’s not funny, but it makes you realize that none of what you said got through to him... Some people know you don’t like it, yet refuse to listen and still enjoy it. That’s just their particular kink. It’s difficult to change someone, so I suppose your options are either to numb yourself and go through with it, or end things. If you’re hesitating to break up because you don’t want to give up the allowance, you could try thoroughly improving his oral hygiene... Something like, “I can’t stand the condition of your mouth anymore! Would you follow this care routine I specify?!” Maybe even cry. Giving advice is easy, but ending things smoothly is difficult too...

Universe Tokyo, Mamiya here. That sounds terrifying… I got chills just reading it. You could tell him that you have trauma related to kissing and don’t really enjoy it. Or perhaps suggest something different? What about telling him what kind of sex you’d prefer—for example, asking him to go straight in without foreplay? I doubt he’ll be able to change, though… There’s only so much you should have to put up with, so please value yourself over the allowance.

I’m Tetsu, a male member. You should clearly tell him, “That doesn’t feel good” or “That hurts.” He probably doesn’t realize how you feel. How about trying a different scenario from usual—something like, “Let’s practice kissing today”—while enjoying some intimate time, and teaching your papa the proper way to kiss? Let him know what’s okay and where your boundaries are.

Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here. > Since this man and I have a year-long arrangement, and he paid the entire allowance upfront, it’s difficult to end the relationship. That’s the key point here. I’m not sure whether you feel you have to stay with him because you’ve already spent the money and can’t return it, or whether you simply can’t end things because it’s hard to find someone this generous. Since hinting clearly isn’t getting through, I think you’ll have to be more direct. Something like: “I don’t like being pressured to kiss constantly during sex—Koi-King kisses, licking my nose, licking my face, tongue-sucking, and so on. If this is going to continue, I won’t be able to see you anymore.” If he tells you to return the money, you could say: “It’s not that I dislike being with you. I dislike the things I just mentioned. You can ask me to return it, but I don’t have it anymore.” You may end up parting ways over this. If so, you should carefully consider whether you’re willing to put up with it, and act in a way you won’t regret. If he says he won’t see you anymore, he’ll probably stop doing those things from then on. Still, I feel that you might be able to allow ordinary kissing, at least.

I’m Kazu, a male member. That man is probably looking for someone who will fully indulge him in things like Magikarp kisses, licking noses and faces, tongue sucking, and so on, so I doubt he’ll stop anytime soon. I’d suggest considering whether to put up with it for a year or return the allowance. That said, you’re a very serious-minded person, questioner.