I’ll answer as Maezawa from the President’s Office as well.
If you choose A, I think you’ll be rejected at the interview.
Since you asked this question here, I assume you’re hoping to have your virginity bought at a high price by one of the men here. Of course, you’re probably also looking for someone kind who will continue seeing you long-term, so I imagine you’ll be extremely careful about choosing the right man.
Even so, if you’re willing to be intimate with a male member, you should choose B.
You should also tell them that you’re a virgin and explain that, although you’re being cautious, you’d like your first experience to be with a man from the club.
Some men enjoy taking on what seems like an impossible challenge. So even if you turn someone down, they may think, “Well, if she’s looking for her first partner, I suppose that’s understandable,” and you probably won’t be accused of scamming anyone.
Good luck registering, and I hope you find a good man.
That said, I hope you find someone who wants a long-term relationship, rather than someone who simply wants to be with a virgin.
> Even if you say it hurts or tell him to stop, he’ll just say, “I’m paying you, so put up with it.”
> I don’t think there are men like that at Uniba who would make an offer to a virgin（笑）
Actually, there are...
I once received feedback from a woman who said that she became frightened partway through and repeatedly begged him to stop, but he wouldn’t listen. She said it was terrifying.
From the man’s perspective, he may have thought, “She said it was okay at first, so she can’t change her mind halfway through.” But honestly, that’s absolutely the worst.
Not all men are as nice as the people who answer questions here, so if you’re thinking of having your first experience with a man from this site, please make sure you carefully judge what kind of person he is.
There are plenty of good men, too. I hope you find someone who will treat you well.
> You could ask the staff during the interview whether you should choose A or B.
Hmm...
I’ve seen many people who were unsure consult the staff and then get rejected, so I’m not sure I’d recommend that.
When someone asks for advice, some staff members will say:
“You don’t have to push yourself. If you’re worried, wouldn’t it be better to choose A?”
“Okay, then I’ll choose A.”
And then they reject her because she chose A—though they don’t tell her that’s the reason.
So be careful.
I’m Rin, a female member.
There was a similar question before, and I remember that most women initially said they wanted to be with someone they genuinely liked and have a proper relationship…
Sure, there may be added benefits, but…
There are probably plenty of men saying, “Please choose me!”
But no matter how confident they are, at the end of the day, they’re still just middle-aged or elderly men you meet through a club in exchange for money.
I think you should really consider it carefully before going ahead, so you don’t end up regretting it later or wishing you could forget the whole experience.
Especially if you have little dating experience, I’d recommend spending this time—something you can only experience now—with a wonderful person around your own age.
P.S.
You don’t have to explain things on a completely different level to someone as immature and inexperienced as me, despite all your life experience, lol.
Thank you.
I guess people on the doing side just don’t understand how completely different it is…
Earlier, my wife sent me to the supermarket, and I was surprised to see how few people were there. Mountains of unsold vegetables and fruit were piled up… Then I looked at the prices and thought, “Whoa, no wonder nobody wants to buy this…” This is Paper Airplane, a male member.
> “I’m torn between Type A and Type B.”
That would make you a Type A.
> “I’m also thinking that I’d like to lose my virginity here.”
In that case, you’re closer to Type C than Type B.
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I believe that regardless of whether a woman is a student, a virgin, or has dating experience, the number of offers—or whether she receives any at all—is determined by how much a man likes her.
Since most male members of dating clubs are probably looking for an adult relationship (intimate), I think the number of offers can also vary depending on the relationship type.
Since this is your first time, wouldn’t it be best to start with “Type A”? If you don’t receive any offers or become more familiar with dating clubs, you could always switch to “Type B.”
