Tips Aug 19, 2020 17:44

I’m a male member who enjoys the Q&A box.

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I believe there was previously a question (?) to the effect that respondents should stop carrying on overly familiar exchanges with one another in front of readers. I also find it difficult to read inside jokes between respondents in the Q&A box. However, Mac still seems to be continuing these overly familiar exchanges. It may be a matter of degree, and perhaps they can be loosely tied to the questions, but I feel they fall into a gray area that is closer to black. To Mac: I feel that your activities and expressive ability are extremely valuable to the Q&A box as well. However, I think many readers have a negative reaction to overly familiar exchanges between respondents, so could you please make an effort to refrain from them? To the other respondents: Would it be possible for you to explicitly or implicitly caution Mac about these overly familiar exchanges among respondents? To the site administrators: If these exchanges do not stop, are you prepared to take compulsory measures, such as suspending submissions on an individual basis? The Q&A box’s freewheeling atmosphere is one of its selling points, but I believe a certain degree of governance and discipline is necessary.
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ジョー・ルビコン
ジョー・ルビコン Male Column Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
Joe here with another classic case of speaking up after the fact. Yours truly, Joe, is deeply entangled with Mac. How deeply? Deep enough that I got involved with a woman Mac had publicly made an offer to. I’m even planning to spend the night with her and get entangled again next week. I wanted to make that clear upfront. Now, I hear you’re a fan of this Q&A box. As one of the lowest-ranking answerers, Joe is delighted. But saying, “I like the Q&A box, but Mac’s answers make me uncomfortable” is probably asking for too much. Before Mac became an answerer, this place was really quiet. Plenty of answers were simply ignored. Ever since Mac showed up, though, it’s been lively. You’re free to like or dislike him, but if you’re a fan of this Q&A box, you can’t just sleep with your junk pointed at Mac. And if you’re seriously talking about “governance and discipline” in this Q&A box, that’s not funny at all. Especially “governance”—take a look at the examples in an English-English dictionary. It’s an extremely strong, formal word (probably). According to Joe’s research, it appears frequently in government documents. Foreign loanwords and Chinese-derived terms don’t belong in this Q&A box. Let’s speak in good old Japanese instead!
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フラグメーカー
フラグメーカー Male Column Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. I feel like I only call Mac out once in a while. I feel it would actually be worse for Mac if people went easy on him out of consideration. Besides, well, Mac is usually the one at fault anyway lol. But here’s the thing: Mac isn’t the only one to blame. Even women who can contact Mac directly make people watching resent him even more by praising him here. And, if someone who’s accepted an offer from Mac is answering questions here in the first place, that feels kind of strange too. If you enter into an adult relationship (intimate) with Mac, you should retire as a respondent. That’s how the valuable female respondents keep disappearing one by one. All because of Mac lol. That would make things much simpler, wouldn’t it? lol Compliments, defenses, and replies should be directed to him personally—or expressed physically, directly. Give it to him directly and to your heart’s content! He’ll probably turn it into a column lol Giving Mac the benefit of the doubt, he’s a member who pays allowance, so there’s nothing wrong with him using this site to try to become more popular. And there are probably male members who join after reading Mac’s columns. When Mac makes an offer, the club earns money too. (Though maybe he’s just using up points.) So in the end, I think he’s contributing to the club. When I see the women dating Mac defending him here, it feels kind of iffy. Mac doesn’t need anyone else to defend him lol For some reason, when I see those defensive comments, I find myself thinking, “Maybe they aren’t actually that close?” If you’re close, it’s just right to make everyone around you think you don’t get along. Appearance-wise, it would be better—and more entertaining—if the women dating Mac criticized him here. If they did that, there would probably be fewer criticisms like this. 【Conclusion】 There’s nothing wrong with dating him. Getting along is a good thing. But the reason questions like this keep coming up is that the way it’s being presented is poor. Ladies, please put up with it for his sake lol > Mac > Putting up with things is part of foreplay too lol
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前澤(スタッフ)
前澤(スタッフ) Male Column Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here, with an answer as well. This is a question box, so writing requests here won’t change anything. As for what would be most effective, I think political pressure would work best. Why not try something along those lines? First, arrange about ¥2 million worth of dates each month. (It’s easy—you’d only need to make offers to 20 blacklisted women.) Keep that up for about six months. At that point, the branch staff will see you as one of their most important clients. Then you can complain to the branch manager, saying, “Can’t you do something about the buddy-buddy atmosphere in that question box?” If they still don’t listen, threaten to stop making offers altogether, saying, “If that’s going to continue, I might just stop.” Since ¥2 million a month is significant—outside Tokyo and Osaka, that is; there it would barely make an impact—the president, Kida, will probably take action and introduce some kind of countermeasure. By the way, your wording makes it sound as though you want the club to take some kind of action. However, even when the club asks male members to pay transportation expenses upfront, some men choose not to do so simply because it’s only a request from the club. It’s merely a request, after all, so there are no compulsory measures. And I imagine more than half of the male members thought that was a good thing. That’s just how Universe is. Isn’t that fine? (It was a rule until recently, so I had a lot to say about it, but if the women aren’t inconvenienced, then I don’t see a problem.)
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Since I’m “another respondent,” I take your question to mean: “Could the respondents explicitly or implicitly caution one another about Mac’s overly familiar exchanges?” Here’s my answer: I have no intention of cautioning anyone. I find it entertaining, and anyone who doesn’t can simply skip it. The same goes for this question and the earlier one: what exactly bothers you about it? I honestly can’t understand or empathize with it at all. Actually, back when I was just a reader, I disliked seeing questions making a big fuss over this kind of answer. Whenever that happened, I simply skipped them. Is that really not enough?
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Thank you for saying you’re a fan. Since the Q&A box is a place to have fun, I think it’s best to enjoy reading all kinds of posts, no matter what direction they take, while imagining every possible scenario. After all, this is a dating club, so even when you encounter any kind of situation, it’s important to know how to turn it into something enjoyable. Especially for men, age usually comes with plenty of life experience, so having a broad-minded and accepting nature is important. No matter what range of emotions a woman shows, I believe you need the capacity to appreciate and enjoy them. And besides, even those of us around fifty are only growing older, increasingly becoming like children again—and once we injure or sprain something, it never seems to heal… Mack apparently is around sixty, from a generation before the term “around sixty” even existed… Wouldn’t it be best to let him do as he pleases? I don’t feel there’s anything worth worrying about.
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