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Aug 19, 2020 10:59
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I’m Saito, the columnist ♪
It’s possible he’s using this opportunity as a way to break things off, so it’s probably best not to go through with it.
Please also be aware that the market rates have changed because of COVID. The allowance for stunningly beautiful women has been dropping shockingly fast.
The more beautiful—and therefore higher-priced—the woman, the greater the rate of decline.
間宮（銀座スタッフ）
Female
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🏅 ユニバースグループで働くスタッフの間宮です。
12年目のお局様👄クールビューティーに見えて中身はチャランポランです♪
Age: 30s
👩 Female
Universe staff
Mamiya from Universe Tokyo here.
If that thought crossed your mind, there’s a chance they may be feeling the same way.
Why not send a simple message without overthinking it, like, “How have you been lately?”
Even if it’s been a while, reconnecting now could actually be the perfect timing!
Other
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I’ve had a similar experience in the past. Honestly, I was happy when she reached out to me.
Since things simply faded out, it doesn’t sound like either of you actually rejected the other. It’s possible that you both mistakenly thought, “Maybe they’ve gotten tired of me,” and missed the right opportunity to get in touch.
If you’re still thinking about him, why not send a casual message like, “It’s been such a long time. How have you been during the pandemic?”
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
Whether you get a reply or not, it’s perfectly fine to reach out one more time.
I wouldn’t feel bad about hearing from you, and if you invited me out, I might even think, “Sure, I’ll meet up with you” (sorry for sounding a little condescending, lol).
So I think something simple like, “I’d like to see you again. Are you free sometime next week?” would work well.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
There are always some women who reach out saying they’d like to meet soon. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that at all.
That said, they may have found another satisfying partner during those three months, so whether a man agrees will depend on his current circumstances.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
I think it’s perfectly fine for the woman to reach out first.
If he liked her, he may be happy to hear from her and be willing to reconnect.
There’s also a good chance he’s already moved on to someone else, so there’s nothing to lose by contacting him.