I’m a Type C female member. I have a question.

I’m Tetsu, a male member. I can’t speak for everyone else, but I’ll say “That was great” even if it isn’t how I truly feel. It’s rare for anyone to feel bad about being told they were good. Whether she’s pretending or flattering me, I think it’s fine as long as we were able to spend meaningful time together. Put another way, I see acting and flattery as tools for making our time together worthwhile.

Mamiya from Universe Tokyo here. It’s dangerous not to know whether you’re compatible with someone or not!! Basically, if you’re in a state where you welcome just anyone, you may unknowingly be taking in some bad energy too. I consider myself highly sensitive, so some people get turned on just by having a meal together, while others may be right on the verge of getting into bed, only to get goosebumps when touched and realize, “Nope, this isn’t going to work after all.” I really want you to experience truly pleasurable sex. Women are generally more sensitive than men, so a woman’s sense that something feels right matters more than a man’s. Men tend to have a broader range, but women also face greater risks in some respects. The feeling you experience in your womb, rather than just in your head, is incredibly important. I often tell the younger staff, “Listen to the voice of your womb.” Please pay closer attention to your own likes and dislikes. A lot of women can’t hear it or don’t know how to tell, but I recommend starting by having a conversation with your womb（笑） Give it a try if you’d like!! Let’s all aim to become women who bring good fortune to the men in our lives!!

Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer as well. > I’m wondering what makes someone feel that they’re compatible or incompatible with another person. Actually, I think “being compatible” may simply mean being a woman who satisfies the man. So I suppose some women might say: “I wouldn’t know—I’m the same with everyone I’m with.” For example: You’re easily aroused, you enjoy yourself too, you don’t immediately go take a shower afterward, and when you want to do it again, she’s happy to go along with it, etc. So I think “being compatible” basically means liking the other person when it comes to intimacy.

I’m Joe, a male member. I do flatter people—actually, I may do nothing but flatter them. But I’d be hurt if you called it a lie. I have absolutely no confidence in my abilities in bed, so when someone agrees to be with me, all I can do is shower them with compliments. So they’re not lies.

I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. I don’t flatter people, but I do express my gratitude. Flattery can involve lies, but gratitude is sincere.

I’m Kazu, a male member. To be honest, I’m not entirely sure what it means for two people to be sexually compatible either. If I had to put it into words, maybe it’s when your styles match. Basically, when you click physically（笑） When the woman responds well and I genuinely feel that I was able to bring her to climax, I feel a sense of achievement and satisfaction—though I don’t actually say that to her. The reactions that satisfy me are things that would be difficult to fake, like passing out or suddenly breaking into a full-body sweat. On the other hand, if her reaction feels acted, I suddenly lose interest and get turned off. I like bringing her to climax several times, then entering her while she’s completely limp and letting her move however she wants. But I’ve only met a handful of women who ever got to that point. So I suppose those women were the ones I was most compatible with. That said, I don’t remember ever telling them they were a good match. I just quietly have sex with them while they’re lying there exhausted. The only woman I remember feeling especially good with during penetration was someone who, when on top, could make her abdominal muscles ripple as if they were drawing upward from below. It wasn’t movement inside—it was her abs moving. I still have no idea how she was able to do that. I should have kept her all to myself. So normally, I prefer women who give me long, slow, enjoyable oral instead of rushing to make me climax, and women who make me think, “Wait, you’ll do that too? You’ll let me do that?” Yeah, I’m pretty shallow（笑）. So I don’t tell them they were good; I thank them instead. I never flatter anyone. In that sense, I feel compatible with women who accurately lick me the way I like without my having to explain it, and women who naturally draw out the things I want to try through conversation and then make them happen. But that isn’t physical compatibility—it’s compatibility of personality. I may think, “She’s a great girl,” but I still don’t tell her, “We’re really compatible.” I just quietly increase her allowance without saying anything. The woman who indulges my more unconventional preferences didn’t meet me through Universe, but whenever I give her extra allowance on my own, she asks, “Isn’t this too much? Are you sure?” Then she’ll mutter to herself, “Oh, I guess it’s because we did ___ today,” and nod as if she’s satisfied. That whole exchange is what makes me realize once again that I really need to take good care of her. I never thought that, as a middle-aged man, I’d write so openly about my preferences in a place where anyone could read them. What kind of humiliation play is this?（笑） I’m not sure it’ll be helpful to anyone, though. P.S. After writing this and reading it over, I found myself thinking, “I wonder if the person I’m currently seeing will read this.”

I’m a male club member who goes by Paper Airplane. For you, there may come a day when you feel you’ve found someone with whom things feel different from before—someone whose way of experiencing things and reaching climax is a better match. But it’s also possible you may never feel that way. Some women simply don’t need to experience that kind of compatibility. > I don’t know, because it feels the same no matter who I’m with. That’s perfectly natural. Unless something particularly significant happens, I don’t think anything will change for a while. Your body doesn’t seem to be seeking it at the moment either, so I don’t think there’s a problem. It’s also probably true that the men you’re with are reasonably satisfied. Still, as the phrase “it feels like…” suggests, it’s probably simply a matter of compatibility. > So maybe men also say, “That was good,” to be considerate toward the woman? Even more so in a club setting, both men and women probably exchange compliments. The chances of two people being truly compatible are quite low—after all, even married couples who love each other aren’t necessarily compatible in that way. If you’re not dissatisfied with the current situation, I don’t think you need to worry too much. Just as personalities differ, everyone has their own patterns and individuality, so it should be enough to focus on deepening a good relationship. If you’re hoping to meet someone you’re truly compatible with, I think it would be better to keep any acting to an absolute minimum—or stop altogether, if possible. Otherwise, you may end up putting up a barrier between yourself and the other person as well. Some men lose interest even when a woman is only acting a little. If that happens, the door—the possibility of something more genuine—may never open.