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Aug 11, 2020 00:46
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Personally, whether in real life or when it comes to celebrities, I tend to be attracted to men who are quite a bit older than me—10, 20 years or more—so I was wondering whether other women feel the same way!
I’d also love to know what kind of men the people answering this question are into! Haha
6 answers
間宮(銀座スタッフ)
Female
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🏅 ユニバースグループで働くスタッフの間宮です。
12年目のお局様👄クールビューティーに見えて中身はチャランポランです♪
Age: 30s
👩 Female
Universe staff
Universe Tokyo’s Mami here.
Generally speaking, I think quite a lot of women are attracted to older gentlemen.
During the interview, we always ask whether men in their 40s or 50s and older would be considered sexually attractive to them.
Among our female members, some have recently said they like dashing older men such as Kotaro Yoshida.
On the other hand, many people who are new to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) can’t really picture it. Even if they say they like older men, they may have only dated men around their own age, or simply have very little dating experience. Some even have a younger boyfriend but still want to try papa-katsu.
Perhaps they’re about to discover the appeal of older men for the first time.
That said, it’s perfectly normal to find actors in their 40s and 50s incredibly attractive, right?
As an aside, my type is Toshiaki Karasawa, Kiichi Nakai, Hiroyuki Sanada, and Johnny Depp. If any of them showed up, I’d happily pay just to have tea with them. (笑)
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I didn’t think this was something I could really answer, but reading everyone’s responses reminded me of something a woman I dated in my twenties told me. She was in her thirties at the time.
When she was in her twenties, she apparently dated a man in his fifties or sixties. He was said to be a high-earning salaryman. She told me that sex with someone full of youthful energy was great (she was talking about me), but sex with an older man who no longer felt confident in his physical stamina had its own appeal as well. It was a long time ago, so I don’t remember the details, but I do remember feeling jealous of the composure older men seemed to have and thinking, “Damn…”
Thinking back on what she told me, I realized that I still haven’t been able to provide the same kind of satisfaction as that much older man, and it made me reflect a little just now.
Come to think of it, female members sometimes mention in their profiles that they’ve dated much older men. And if you include those who don’t specifically write it in their profiles, as well as those who feel that each age group has its own appeal, it seems that quite a large number of women either prefer older men or are open to dating them.
Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
When I was asked who I liked, I just couldn’t resist answering.
Yep, I was the girl who fell head over heels for the hero when I watched Star Wars: Episode I in elementary school…
The boys in my class looked like such little kids compared to him!
When I was in middle school, I loved Hiroshi Tachi and Kyohei Shibata from the drama Abunai Deka, and I never missed an episode.
Yutaka Takenouchi, Masaharu Fukuyama, and Goro Kishida are all wonderful, aren’t they?
I completely agree with everyone else’s choices~
Ahh, being surrounded by such gorgeous gentlemen would be like having my very own reverse harem~
Hehe…☆
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the president’s office here.
> Are there many women who like older men?
I’d say there are quite a few. However, during the interview, some women may not even realize it themselves.
If we limit it to women who specifically say they don’t want someone around their own age—which I believe is what truly makes someone an older-man enthusiast—I’d say only about 10% mention it.
That said, one in ten women may be willing to date you like a romantic partner, even if money is involved.
Incidentally, when asked whether they like older men, most women read the room and say yes, but I don’t believe that’s necessarily how they really feel.
There are also women who say from the start, “Dating someone older would be difficult. I could manage up to around 30, though…”
But they may simply not have realized it yet. After registering and going on dates, they might discover that they actually like older men.
Other
I’m Rin, a female member.
I never really considered myself someone who was into older men, but back in high school, when everyone around me was swooning over Takuya Kimura, I couldn’t see what was so cool about him at all. I was more into Koichi Iwaki, Goro Kishitani, and Masayuki Imai.
When I was about to start elementary school, I often watched whatever my father had on TV. I was absolutely captivated by the physiques and charisma of Chiyonofuji and Tatsumi Fujinami.
(That retirement press conference: “I’ve reached my physical limit… I’ve lost the willpower, too…” I can’t even count how many times I copied it…)
Also, since I grew up in the countryside, the only baseball games they showed were Yomiuri Giants games, and I was glued to the screen watching Ogata lay down bunts.
Even now, I’m crazy about men with tanned skin, broad chests, and well-developed biceps.
Other
I’m Marika, a female member.
Thinking back, I’ve liked distinguished older men like Koichi Iwaki and Kyohei Shibata since I was in middle school (though when I do the math, they were only 38 or so back then!).
Going even further back, ever since I was in second grade, I’ve liked a man who worked for my father’s company—somewhere between a guy in his mid-30s and an older gentleman. In fact, when I was in college, I secretly dated him for a little while without telling my father (he would’ve been in his mid-40s then).
I think Yutaka Takenouchi has finally started to develop that distinguished, handsome charm lately.
I like Yutaka Takenouchi’s and Masaharu Fukuyama’s voices. If either of them whispered in my ear, I’d probably melt from their voices alone.
P.S. I had to laugh because this overlaps with Papuwa-san’s answer. Yutaka Takenouchi and Masaharu Fukuyama really are classics for every generation!