I’m a male member. I always enjoy reading this site.

I’m Marika, a female member. I pride myself on being sexy inside and out, but I’ve been told you couldn’t tell at all from my profile. I’m not keeping things secret right now, so I wonder if anyone would like to find out for themselves.

Maezawa from the President’s Office here, too. > There are quite a few women who seem really sexy, but once I actually get involved with them more deeply, they aren’t as sexy as I expected. Sexy, but not sexy… That’s a pretty difficult one. When you say “sexy, but not,” do you mean they look sexy? And when you say “not as sexy as I expected,” do you mean that they weren’t sexy when you got intimate with them? I feel like I kind of understand, but also kind of don’t. It might help if you explained a little more about what you’re looking for. “Sexy” is too abstract, which makes this difficult. For example, some people look sexy even when they’re fully dressed, while others still don’t seem sexy even when they’re naked. I don’t know if people these days are familiar with him, but photographer Nobuyoshi Araki is often regarded as an erotic photographer. However, people used to say that his photos were completely different from those of other adult-magazine photographers because they were artistic photographs—and that, unlike adult magazines, they didn’t turn men on at all. Of course, plenty of people probably do find his photos erotic. It seems to depend on what exactly someone is looking for when they say “sexy.” Anyway, I’ve gone off on a tangent. If by “sexy” you mean variety in intimacy, perhaps you’re looking for a woman who is willing to accommodate anything. But I think that also depends on the level of trust between the two people, as well as how sensual the man himself is. If the man isn’t sensual at all, it’s unreasonable to expect the woman to be. I also think there’s an aspect of being able to open up because the other person is sensual. And if by “sexy” you mean how responsive someone is, it may depend on whether they’ve had the opportunity to explore that side of themselves, as well as their natural sensitivity. So I think it would be better to clearly explain what kind of “sexiness” you’re looking for. > The other day, I casually said, “Let’s do something outdoors♡,” and she was completely put off. Timing and setting are important. Rather than saying it out of nowhere, you should subtly steer the conversation toward erotic topics. Once things have warmed up and the man has started bringing up those kinds of subjects himself, gradually create an atmosphere conducive to intimacy. Before you know it, you might find yourselves walking along a riverbank in Kanazawa… The trick is to build up the mood so much that the other person starts thinking, “Maybe we should just do it here,” while also giving the impression that moving somewhere else now would spoil the atmosphere. Something along the lines of, “I wouldn’t mind staying here.” That’s the general idea.（笑）

I’m Kamihikoki, a male member of Henachoko-chin. Regardless of her class, popularity, or when she joined, I look for someone I’m mysteriously drawn to—someone who isn’t normally my type, whom other men probably wouldn’t make an offer to, yet somehow strikes me as appealing. Rather than carefully reading her profile, I look only at the photos and search for someone whose unique aura gives me an instant, irresistible gut feeling—not simply because she’s my usual type, beautiful, or cute. Someone I can feel strongly drawn to without a second thought, without needing to deliberate over it… Even though I’m a bit of a wimp, she made me climax twice in about an hour—something I hadn’t been able to do for decades. It was incredible… to feel that strongly… Could it have been a miracle? After that, it all comes down to chemistry and chance, so I imagine you need to make quite a lot of offers. P.S. Since it seems you’ve also met some very erotic partners, rather than thinking about making more offers, I feel it may be more important to occasionally try something different so that you can both enjoy yourselves—not just relying on physical stimulation—and deepen your exploration of your chemistry until you’re both completely overwhelmed with pleasure.

I’m Kazu, a male member. When I first joined, I was worried that most of the women would be like frozen Oma bluefin tuna—only entertaining us because of the allowance. But after actually getting involved, I’ve found that everyone is at least reasonably attentive, so I’m generally satisfied. Most women are probably sensual in their own way, so when someone doesn’t seem sensual, I take it as my own failure to bring that side out and keep working on myself every day. Let’s do our best to help the women open up their hidden drawers! As I was writing this, it occurred to me that people who feel uncomfortable with enjoying intimacy might choose Type A. Their dating type could perhaps offer a clue. As Romane mentioned, eros seems to have many different meanings—or directions—so perhaps the way this question was phrased is a little too simplistic. I’d love for the questioner to repost it with a libido-filled question about the kind of sensual girl they’re hoping to find. It might be interesting, haha. As for the swimsuit photos on profiles, I don’t find them particularly sensual. Though Megumi’s photo taken by Mac was pretty sexy. Thank you for the treat. > Mac Personally, I don’t think Type B necessarily means someone feels uncomfortable with intimacy. I can’t say for sure, though, since I haven’t dated anyone who chose Type A either. P.S. Speaking of Saikawa reminded me: one of the things I’d like to try before I die is outdoor intimacy. I’d like to give it a shot once the mosquitoes have died down a bit.

I’m Flag Maker, a columnist. I’ve thought about it quite a bit, and from my perspective, the women I’d consider sexy are people I’ve met privately—not through a club. I’ve never met a truly sexy woman through a club. Even when they’re willing to be intimate, I don’t really find it that sexy. Unfortunately. I wonder why that is. Maybe it’s because neither she nor I can get 100% into it? > Mac Maybe the reason I don’t find them sexy is that “I’m the problem.” I’m the type who can’t unlock my erotic side unless I’m genuinely into someone. Maybe I should become Mac’s apprentice so I can unlock it anytime, haha. P.S. Ikumi from Blue Cheese is unbelievably intense, lol. Whatever you do, search for her only when your mouth is empty. I was eating yakisoba and drinking a highball by myself, and I almost blew noodles out of my nose. > Mac The only person I’m still seeing regularly is in her thirties. Is she sexy? Well, I suppose she might be. I don’t really understand the usual definition of “sexy” anymore. It also depends on how we’re both feeling. But I guess the truth is, I didn’t choose her because she was “sexy” or anything like that. We’ve continued seeing each other because she’s a genuinely great person.