Tips Aug 5, 2020 19:15

I’m a female member from outside a major city, and I’ve been registered for a month.

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I signed up excitedly, thinking I’d receive an offer right away, but I haven’t received a single one. Do I need to be prepared to wait, assuming that offers may not come? I change my comments every week and upload selfies as well. If six months pass without anything happening, I of course plan to ask the staff to arrange another photo shoot. Besides simply waiting, is there anything I can do to increase my chances of receiving an offer? I’d really appreciate any advice. Thank you.
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Fuu
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer. I think the drop-off is partly because the pandemic has made it difficult for male members to travel for business. I have two girls in Sapporo and Fukuoka who I’ve continued seeing. Both of them said that most of their offers came from men who were traveling for work. It really makes you want to say, “Damn you, COVID!” In my experience, many of the girls I’ve wanted to continue seeing have been from outside the major cities. I haven’t been able to see those two girls either, so I miss them (T_T) Question asker, why not wait until the pandemic settles down?
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間宮(銀座スタッフ)
間宮(銀座スタッフ) Female Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 ユニバースグループで働くスタッフの間宮です。
12年目のお局様👄クールビューティーに見えて中身はチャランポランです♪
Age: 30s 👩 Female Universe staff
I’m Mamiya from Universe Club Tokyo. My condolences to our members in the regions. —or maybe that’s not quite the right way to put it. Perhaps you’re simply looking in the wrong market for the kind of offers you want. Are you active anywhere besides Universe Club? I tried signing up with around ten different dating clubs all at once. I thought a refined, elegant look would be popular, but at some clubs I received absolutely no offers. That made me think those clubs might favor women with a more glamorous, entertainment-industry look and heavier makeup. You can also meet people through apps, and the papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) market now offers endless options. There’s absolutely no need to limit yourself to Universe Club. If you keep working on yourself and taking action, I think you’ll start to shine. Once you’ve made the rounds, come back in for a new photo shoot. Let’s create a persona that sells!
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member named “Paper Airplane.” Since you’re based outside a major city, when you write: Location for offers: Anywhere is fine it can be interpreted as meaning you’re willing to travel to meet them. It’s almost the same as saying “anywhere in Japan is okay,” but “anywhere is fine” gives a better impression. This makes it easier to receive offers not only from men nearby, but also from men in somewhat distant major cities—or even from anywhere in the country.
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Aizawa, Sub-Chief of Universe Club Tokyo, will answer as well. Some people receive an offer right away, but honestly, I think more people don’t get one immediately. Have you tried checking out the male members’ profiles and sending them a “You seem wonderful” message? Quite a few offers come from those “You seem wonderful” messages, so give it a try if you’d like!!
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Based on the staff’s answers to the anonymous questions, it seems quite a lot of women never receive an offer. Please take a look at Mr. Maezawa’s answer here: https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/4204 For now, the only things I can think of besides simply waiting are: - Request the “Maezawa check” mentioned in his answer. - Reconsider your dating type (but don’t misrepresent yourself!). What do you think?
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