Regarding the staff recommendations mentioned in my previous question, I wanted to ask about making multiple offers.

Universe Club Tokyo’s Mamiya here. Are you asking about the criteria I recommend when choosing from multiple offers? In that case, I look into all the women. - I review their interview profile cards for personality, responsiveness, conversational skills, and other qualities, then compare those with what the man values and with his past dating history. - I also check how many offers the woman has received. The number of dates she’s had is important, but so is how recently her last date was. It also matters whether the man wants to avoid taking risks or prefers someone with little to no experience, so I make recommendations based on the overall picture.

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. > If you make multiple offers to four women If you make offers to all four at the same time, I think the club will contact them more or less at random. If you specify an order of preference, they’ll probably contact them in that order. I understand “recommended” not as a priority ranking for male members, but as the club’s PR message saying, “This female member is highly recommended!” From there, we male members can choose someone from the recommendations, or choose another woman we’re interested in—the club shouldn’t have any problem with either. If you leave it up to the club, and there’s a recommended woman who hasn’t received an offer, they’ll most likely ask, “How about her?”

Maezawa from the president’s office here as well. Mac-san seems to be in a good mood today（笑） I believe this question is asking about the order used when, during a system offer, you select four women but want to make an offer to only one of them, and choose “in the order recommended by staff.” There aren’t any particular criteria for this either. The staff member handling the offer simply thinks, “I feel like we should start with this woman,” and asks her about her availability first. That “feeling” is basically the staff member’s intuition. They look at the candidates and decide, “She’s probably the best choice among them.” It may sound arbitrary, but since they interview women every day, their instincts are often surprisingly accurate. Of course, they read the profiles carefully and also check the interview notes that only staff can see. Still, if you ask why that woman was ranked first, they may not be able to give you a specific explanation—it was just a gut feeling. Naturally, sometimes they choose based on the interview scores simply because explaining everything is a hassle. But those scores don’t have any fixed standards either, so one staff member’s score of 80 and another staff member’s score of 40 might actually be considered roughly equivalent. So if you choose “staff recommendations,” it’s best not to overthink the details. Just accept that it’s based on “intuition” and hope you get a staff member with good instincts—that will help you stay relaxed. For people who don’t like leaving it up to someone else, there’s also an option to proceed in the order you selected yourself. If you don’t want to leave it to staff, I recommend choosing that option. If you leave it to them, let them handle it. If you don’t like that, decide the order yourself.

I’m Hikouki, a male member. I thought the man making the offer was the one who decided the order of priority? When it comes to relationships between men and women (unless they’ve asked about your preferences, though even that is difficult…), I don’t think there’s really such a thing as a genuine “recommendation.” Basically, you contact everyone and go with the girl who replies first, I’d say. Since the staff are the ones making introductions, they’ll encourage proactive girls as recommendations because they’re relatively reassuring. P.S. In any case, it’s also important to develop the ability to choose the kind of woman you personally find captivating. When the man himself is happy and in a good mood, the woman is likely to be happy too. When it comes to relationships between men and women, looking at your own actions is probably the quickest way forward… P.P.S. Mac, That girl who made the reverse offer, and the person from that question box who got someone pregnant, have become a topic of discussion… If you really cared about her, you wouldn’t risk getting her pregnant, right? And if someone like that were in the club… It gives me chills… It must be difficult… (Wait, am I really in a position to talk about other people…?) P.P.P.S. Mac, Exactly. If you love each other, then I recommend getting married because of an unexpected pregnancy. Of the several times I’ve been married, that was the most natural. I recommend it even more in this day and age. Though I doubt that was the questioner’s situation… Mac, if her due date is tomorrow, wouldn’t that mean you’d simply be doing it around her “safe” days, without worrying? I was surprised that, before making the reverse offer, she had read through the answers and columns in quite a lot of detail. She was also very happy to receive so many thoughtful answers from all the female respondents she admires.