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Aug 4, 2020 17:03
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I have a question about hiding my profile from a specific person.
I’m currently taking a leave of absence from the club to prevent infection due to COVID-19, and I’m not meeting any gentlemen either.
About six months ago, a gentleman requested to meet me. We met once, and it was agreed that we would continue seeing each other regularly. During our first meeting, I felt that we talked quite a lot about things like our educational backgrounds, but overall, I had a pleasant time, and he seemed to enjoy himself as well. However, I came to realize that he was the type of gentleman who wanted to stay in frequent contact. To put it rather bluntly, he was quite persistent. If I didn’t reply to his LINE messages for a short while, he would message me from his phone number, asking why I wasn’t replying, whether he should block me, and telling me to make sure I replied properly.
I apologized and continued communicating with him, but our contact suddenly stopped a few months ago. As far as I was concerned, his allowance wasn’t particularly generous compared with other gentlemen, and I felt we were incompatible because he was rather possessive. So I thought it would be fine to end the relationship there. However, this gentleman seemed to be checking my club profile frequently. Whenever I posted a new comment, he would contact me about it. (The comment said that, due to the impact of COVID-19, I was currently declining dates.)
The club’s website says that profiles and comments may be viewed by gentlemen I have met in the past, and this was also explained to me during my interview, so I understood that. Recently, however, I learned through the question box that there may be a feature for hiding one’s profile from a specific person. Since this gentleman is relatively persistent, I would prefer that he not be able to view my future comments. If such a feature is available, I’m thinking of contacting the club to ask about it. Does a feature like “hide from a specific person” actually exist? Would it be available in a case like mine? And has anyone ever used it?
Thank you for reading this lengthy post.
I would appreciate any advice.
4 answers
間宮(銀座スタッフ)
Female
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🏅 ユニバースグループで働くスタッフの間宮です。
12年目のお局様👄クールビューティーに見えて中身はチャランポランです♪
Age: 30s
👩 Female
Universe staff
Universe Club Tokyo, Mamiya here.
I don’t think it’s any longer his concern whether you look for someone else. Even if you hide your profile from him, he may still contact you again at some point.
Since the relationship is already over, I’d recommend politely blocking him or using your phone’s call-blocking feature.
👨 Male
Universe member
This is Date◎Yume, a male member.
That’s quite a sophisticated question.
Even though you’re on a temporary break from the service:
> When I posted a new comment, I received a message about it.
…Huh???
As Mr. Maezawa said, “Even if you suspend your membership, you can still see that particular man.” Apparently, that can happen too(笑)
There are quite a few things in this world we just don’t understand…
It seems your only option is to contact the branch where you registered(笑)
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
As expected, Maezawa’s answer is spot-on…
Since you seem to be having trouble, rather than asking about this here, why not consult your local branch office?
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here.
Well, I can’t really answer that either, haha.
First, try telling the branch where you registered exactly what happened. Simply bringing this up won’t put you at a disadvantage.
That said, the bigger question is: why can you still see the comment even though your account is on hold?
When you suspend your account, your profile should disappear from view, meaning no men should be able to see it.
You may want to ask them to check that as well. If your profile has been set to display compulsorily to that particular man, he may still be able to see it even while your account is suspended.