【If you want a female member to like you, you should spend money】
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Hello everyone, I’m a Type C female member.
If you want a female member to like you, rather than desperately trying to contact her frequently right after meeting her, I think you should offer more allowance than she asks for and spend generously to get her to like you first—then ask if you can stay in touch more often.
【Question】What do you all make a point of doing to get female members to like you??
P.S. Based on patterns I’ve noticed from past offers, there’s something I’ve come to feel:
The more a man says he wants to stay in frequent contact and have a relationship like a romantic couple, the more likely he seems to be stingy and offer only a small allowance.
On the other hand, men who keep a bit more distance and only get in touch a few times a month—men who aren’t looking for an intense, constantly-in-contact kind of relationship—seem more likely to offer a higher allowance and pay the amount requested.
I’m BB7, a male member.
Men who want to stay in frequent contact and build a relationship that feels like they’re dating probably don’t want to face the reality that money is involved. So they want to date women while offering a smaller allowance, and that’s naturally how things end up.
If the woman is okay with that, then there’s no problem. But if she finds that kind of boyfriend-like relationship annoying, or believes the money comes first, they’re simply incompatible. It’s better for both of them to move on quickly.
What I do to make women like me:
- Don’t contact them too frequently
- Don’t pry into their private lives
- Don’t fall for them
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I’m Saito, a column writer♪
I agree with you. Honestly, I don’t understand why anyone would get involved with a male member who contacts them so frequently.
It’s a waste of time.
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I’m Gaku, a male member.
> What do you do to make female members like you?
I’m just an average middle-aged man—not handsome, over 180 cm tall, or a high earner by the salon’s standards.
So, first and foremost, I focus on looking clean and well-groomed. I also pay attention to things like my body-fat percentage and skeletal muscle rate so I don’t let myself get out of shape.
Once I’ve taken care of the basics appearance-wise, I try not to send constant updates about myself or become stingy.
But at the end of the day, I’m still just an ordinary middle-aged man. Any superficial tricks will eventually show, so I think it’s important to be as natural as possible—and to accept it and move on if someone doesn’t like me.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
To make a good impression on female members, I try to pay attention to what they want and don’t want, so I don’t cause them any stress.
Everyone is different, and there are all kinds of personalities. So rather than pushing my own preferences, I first try to understand what the other person is thinking.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
Unfortunately, I think that’s probably exactly right.
Beyond that, I suppose the choice is whether or not to “take on” that kind of person.
That said, men who require that much attention may simply be more open about their true nature, while even men who seem low-maintenance may actually want that kind of girlfriend-like treatment.
If you misunderstand that, I don’t think the relationship will last.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well.
【If you want female members to like you, you should spend money】
This feels surprisingly close to the truth, but most men react negatively.
They say things like:
“She has no idea how long it takes to earn that amount.”
“What makes her worth that much?”
“I don’t like women who are all about money.”
Those kinds of comments go on and on.
But in general, the men who register here are in a position to spend money because they have the ability to earn what most people would consider a large amount in a short time.
If you’re going to complain about that, then women wouldn’t need to register with a dating club either.
And if we’re talking about someone’s value, then if you don’t see any value in her, you simply shouldn’t want to sleep with her.
If you don’t like women who are all about money, why not just go out and pick someone up normally? You probably have opportunities to meet women without using a dating club, so you could try approaching someone there.
If you’re looking for a woman who will meet you without money being involved, why are you here?
In the end, it’s also true that men who don’t receive complaints from women are generally men who spend a reasonable amount of money.
When that isn’t the case, they tend to be men who can date women with considerable humility.
I think you’ve learned a lot through your own experiences, but it would be best to keep those thoughts to yourself and continue accordingly.
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