Everyone, when it comes to the timing of an offer, do you act immediately once you decide, “This is the woman I want to make an offer to,” or do you take some time before contacting the branch?
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The reason I ask is that last weekend, while looking through the newly registered women, I found two I wanted to make an offer to—one at my registered branch and one at another branch. I added them to my favorites, planning to adjust my schedule and make an offer after the weekend, but when Monday came, they had both disappeared from my favorites.
My guess is that the branches had to take some action because offers flooded in, or the number of men who had actually made offers exceeded the women’s expectations, so perhaps the women asked to hold off for the time being. That’s just speculation, though.
I was really disappointed and frustrated this time, so going back to my original question: once you decide, “This is the woman,” do you all make the offer right away?
I imagine that’s what most of you do—you act immediately, right?
For reference, both women were Platina and GOLD members with Dating Type B. One was at my registered branch, and the other was at a different branch.
Once they started appearing again, I figured there’d be no chance for a hopeless salaryman like me anyway… So over the past few days, I’ve been trying to change my approach and make an offer immediately whenever I think, “Ah, this is the one.”
I’m BB7, a male member.
I can meet the women who are open to meeting me without much trouble, but no matter what I do, I just can’t meet the ones who aren’t.
I guess it all comes down to fate.
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Mamiyama from Universe Club Tokyo here.
I can really understand how disappointing this must feel...
Our members are often even better at spotting quality than our staff, so some women end up disappearing from the listings before you know it.
We can usually tell which women are likely to become popular, but honestly, we can’t know for sure until we list them. If someone receives so many offers that we have to hide her profile, we’d rather list her in a higher class from the start.
Before planning your schedule, it might be worth asking about any women who catch your eye.
Timing is the ultimate test of compatibility, so if things don’t ultimately lead to an offer, I hope you can take it as a sign that the two of you simply weren’t meant to be.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
The woman I’d just shared a late-night meal with had met me in the evening, fallen into a deep sleep after an exhausting encounter, and then we enjoyed our usual late-night meal together. As we parted, we said, “Let’s see each other again tomorrow.” I found myself savoring the afterglow, thinking, “Honestly, she’s all I need.”
She joined recently, accepted my online offer right away, and we had an online date almost immediately. Two days later, we met in person, and after some time had passed, she put her membership on hold.
It’s also reassuring that she’s genuinely available whenever we want to meet—even at the last minute.
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I'm Gaku, a male member.
Exactly. It happens all the time, and it's frustrating.
My income isn't currently at a level where I can make offers to everyone, so that's what motivates me to work harder.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
That sort of thing does happen, doesn’t it?
However, now that she’s disappeared from your favorites, you may also be overestimating her.
Take a step back and think about it calmly.
If you’re an ordinary, bumbling salaryman like me, how likely is it that you could actually maintain a relationship with a popular woman?
In the end, it could very well lead to a sad outcome.
That’s why, especially when something like this happens, I recommend taking good care of the woman you’re currently seeing.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here.
If you’ve had a similar experience, you’ll probably start making offers right away next time.
When you meet a woman you’d like to make an offer to, I think it’s best to do so immediately.
As you said, that kind of thing happens quite often.
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