I always enjoy reading this site.
When I'm intimate with someone, I basically find myself wanting a second round.
If it's only once, I feel somewhat unsatisfied, as though things were left unresolved, and I don't get much satisfaction.
Even among women I've met through Universe, there are a certain number who are happy to go for a second round.
On the other hand, sometimes they seem quite reluctant, or in some cases even say, “Then please increase my allowance,” which can be disappointing.
(I realize everyone is different, though...)
So my question is: Could you give me some ideas on how to smoothly bring up having a second round?
(In particular, based on Romane-san's answers in the past, I get the impression that you may feel somewhat uncomfortable with being asked for multiple rounds. I would appreciate your comments. Please forgive me if I've misunderstood...)
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
I’m greedy, selfish, and pretty horny too, so I understand how you feel—I’m also hoping for a second round.
Here’s how I gauge the situation:
If she starts fidgeting after the first round, looking like she wants to take a shower, it’s usually going to be difficult. In that case, I honestly ask, “That was really good—would it be okay to go one more time?”
If she says things like, “Sure, if you add a little to the allowance,” or “You’re not feeling energetic anymore, are you? Fine,” then it’s a go. But if she says, “No way,” or “It hurts,” then it’s a no.
When that happens, Fuu puts on his thick gentlemanly mask and, despite being worked up, gently says, “Okay. I’m sorry. You don’t have to push yourself.” Then I just settle for the first round.
There are also girls who stay close afterward and naturally go along with a second round. My standard for continuing with someone is whether she’s okay with round two.
There was one girl I met last year who I had to say goodbye to, but I still can’t forget her. She looked innocent, but was actually quite naughty, and I really liked her. She preferred it from behind and asked to go one more time. We even tried for a third round, but Fuu couldn’t stay hard, and I remember losing it when the medication wore off halfway through.
Still, I was really happy. I’d love to see her again. Fuu is always looking for girls like that.
I hope you find someone that naughty too ^_^
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I think your only option is to find a sexy woman who enjoys s*x.
If she doesn’t want to go for round two, the only way to persuade her might be with a higher allowance.
That’s just the kind of “dreamless world” this is, haha.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
I completely understand wanting to enjoy a second round.
The important thing is to put yourself in your partner’s shoes and respect their feelings. Even if you explain what you want, this involves another person, so getting everything your own way can be very difficult.
Once you actually get started, if they think, “I like this person,” the number of rounds may no longer matter.
First, it’s fine to ask directly what they want, but ideally, you should figure it out for yourself and earn their trust. Even preferences about something as simple as how they’re touched differ from person to person. It can be challenging, but if you think of fulfilling your own desires as the reward waiting at the end, you may find it easier to keep trying.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, too.
> “Then please increase my allowance,” she would say,
It’s obvious to anyone that the problem is simply that the allowance is too low, so rather than getting overly eager while offering a low allowance,
it seems like there’d be no problem if you just made it three times higher from the start.
Three times, even though it’s only twice?
I figure if you pay double, you’ll want to do it three times, so she might be happy if you pay triple from the outset.
And ever since Gundam first appeared,
“three times”
has been the standard. (Laughs)
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It’s Joe.
I agree with everyone else: increasing the allowance would probably solve everything.
I suspect the questioner is really asking, “What magic words can I use to get her to agree to a second round without asking for more money?” But based on my research, I don’t think such words exist.
I understand how you feel, but please value someone who is willing to go along with it willingly.
I hope your relationship remains a peaceful one.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Ideally, you should find someone you’re physically compatible with.
That said, if your focus is so heavily on ejaculation that you feel unsatisfied unless you go for a second round, I don’t think women will be pleased. It’s also hard to imagine the relationship continuing that way.
Give it everything you’ve got in the first round.
In fact, it may be best to approach sex with the mindset that it’s primarily for the woman. Whether it’s the first round or the second, what matters is satisfying your partner.
You might want to think about why you can’t feel satisfied after the first round.
If both of you use up all your energy in the first round and achieve a deeply satisfying sense of unity, it seems to me that a second round wouldn’t even be necessary.
And if things reach that point, she may naturally want to thank you herself and do something special for you in the second round.
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