I was just talking with a woman who had sent me a reverse offer, and something that came up was whether it’s possible to delete and remove the calendar itself from a woman’s profile.
Once the calendar has been displayed, is it impossible to remove it?
For male members, how important is it to see whether a calendar is displayed? Do you use it as a reference when making an offer?
For female members, have you noticed any difference in the number of offers you receive—or any changes or tips—depending on whether your calendar is displayed?
Maezawa from the president’s office here—I’ll answer this too.
Regarding the members-only page, we sometimes get requests like:
“For example, I want to search for women aged 18–22 with bust sizes from F to H, but I can’t. Please make the search settings more detailed.”
But even when we pass requests like that along, we’re told things like:
“Wouldn’t the number of users be too small to justify the development time required for the changes?”
So it can be difficult to get them implemented.
In that context, the calendar feature was an unusual success.
Of course, people only welcomed it at first. In practice, the women didn’t keep their calendars updated, and men would see an open date, assume it was fine, and send an offer for the next day—only to get replies like, “I already have plans that day…”
This happened so often that eventually the men stopped checking the calendar, and because the men weren’t looking at it, the women stopped updating it too.
That’s more or less where things stand now.
Still, since the feature made it through an extremely difficult approval process, it’s hard to say, “Please remove the calendar feature.”
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I’m Hikōki, a male member.
Maezawa-san, staff,
Is there any way to delete and remove the calendar itself from a woman’s profile?
Once the calendar has been displayed, is it impossible to delete it?
So there’s really no way to remove it?
Sorry for not explaining clearly—I wanted to ask about this as well.
P.S. Since she lives in ◯◯ and it’s difficult to go out much with COVID still going on, if she only has a few scattered dates marked as available, as Mac-san mentioned, she can end up looking unmotivated, which makes you lose interest in making an offer…
> Maezawa-san
Oh, I see. If that’s how the feature was implemented, then I guess it can’t be deleted.
Apparently, a male member once made an offer for the same day after seeing her availability. Since she had to get ready, there was no way she could accept it on such short notice. When she declined, he complained, and it seems the experience left her a little traumatized. Now she can only post dates when she’s absolutely certain she’ll be available.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Whether someone has a calendar displayed isn’t that important to me.
That said, when a woman’s calendar is up to date, I take it as a sign that she’s motivated to find a dating partner, which encourages me to make an offer. Meeting someone who isn’t very motivated can end up feeling like I’m just going through the motions.
Oh, and if someone has lots of weekday daytime availability despite not being on leave or self-employed, I might wonder whether she really has a job. (Though I’ve never come across anyone like that.)
Also, as you’d expect, when I make an offer, I compare her availability with my own schedule and choose a few possible dates and times.
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