It’s been about three weeks since I signed up, but I still haven’t written anything in the comments section of the profile page I was given because I have no idea what to put there.
However, thankfully, I’ve been receiving offers nonstop, so I’ve left it blank for the entire three weeks without writing anything myself.
But I assume the reason I’m still getting offers so frequently is probably the “newcomer effect,” and that effect is already starting to wear off.
So I’m thinking of writing something to appeal to people, but female members may know what I mean—the example in the comments section is a rather silly line like, “I prefer tall, handsome men who aren’t stingy.” (I’m sorry to the club staff who used that as an example…)
Are there really women who write comments that silly?
I’m thinking of elaborating a little more on my hobbies and special skills, describing the kind of relationship I’m looking for, and mentioning that I have a pet so people with allergies can avoid contacting me. But am I going about it wrong?
Should I be more upfront and write things like what kind of people I like and how much allowance I’m looking for?
I genuinely have no idea what to write, so I feel embarrassed relying on other people, but I’d really appreciate your advice.
I’m a BB7 male member.
It seems like most people write whatever they want. Other than specifying the exact allowance amount, isn’t it fine to write pretty much anything? Your personality comes through in those words, too.
For example, saying, “I’d like to have a relationship like ○○,” or “My hobby is ○○, so I’d be happy if we could enjoy it together.”
I don’t play golf, for instance, so if a woman writes that she’d like to play golf together, I’ll stop making offers to her—we’re probably not a good match.
I hesitate to make offers to women who haven’t written anything.
Because I don’t know anything about them.
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I’m Rin, a female member.
I do remember wondering what I should write. So it was okay to mention massages? I thought it might sound strange, so I left it out.
Yesterday, after things were over, I gave him a massage for nearly an hour. I taught myself, so I enjoy both giving and receiving massages.
Mr. Maezawa,
Of course, it’s afterward.
I’m spaced out for a while, just sitting there dazed, but then we shower, watch TV together, and spend some time cuddling.
Since he plays sports, I mix regular massages with sports massages while we chat. I also massage my husband when he’s tired in everyday life, so it isn’t particularly difficult or unpleasant for me.
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Maezawa from the President’s Office here as well.
> I’m thinking of going into a little more detail about my hobbies and special skills, what kind of relationship I’m looking for, and the fact that I have a pet so that people with allergies can avoid applying. Is there anything wrong with including that kind of information?
I don’t think it’s necessarily wrong, but I don’t think those details would really make anyone interested.
What matters, I think, is whether your hobbies are the kind of things that appeal to men.
> Should I be completely upfront and write exactly how much allowance I’m looking for?
As Papua-san also mentioned, writing your desired allowance is prohibited.
P.S. As for massages, if the topic comes up while you’re talking with the staff during the interview, it may be included in the staff’s comments.
There are also men who make offers saying they’d like to be given a massage.
But that would be after intimacy, right? I can’t help wondering whether that isn’t exhausting.
Is it really okay? Or do they mean a massage beforehand?
I’m not really sure.
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I’m a male member, and my username is Paper Airplane.
I don’t think you necessarily need to write it, but mentioning the type of person you’re not comfortable with can make it easier for the opposite type to send you an offer. For example:
“I’m not really comfortable with people who are overweight…”
I think the clearest things to mention are height, build, and age.
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I’m Kazu, a male member who loves questions like this.
The example sentence, “I prefer someone tall, handsome, and not stingy,” is pretty awful, isn’t it? But I’m sure it was created with the profound insight that a terrible example would encourage everyone to come up with their own wording instead of just copying and pasting it. Amazing.
Personally, I’m more inclined to reach out when a profile mentions something I’m interested in too—something we could talk about on a date. I do think it would save both sides time if women were more candid about the kind of relationship they’re looking for, but I haven’t come across any female profiles with particularly candid comments yet. What a shame.
For example, if someone wrote, “I work in finance, so I enjoy talking about economics,” or “I’m good at giving massages,” I’d definitely reach out. In fact, I once asked someone who wrote, “I’m good at giving massages,” out on a date. (笑) If there are any female members who enjoy and are good at talking about finance or economics, feel free to send me a reverse offer. (笑)
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