Tips Jul 29, 2020 13:47

I’d appreciate your advice.

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I recently registered as a female member. Are you more likely to receive offers if you write a longer description in the comments section? Or does the length of the comment have little to do with whether you receive offers? This is completely new to me. I wrote something in the comments section, but I’m worried that it might be too short. I’m sorry to bother you when you’re busy, but I’d really appreciate your advice.
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いっつ・みぃ
いっつ・みぃ Male Send a reverse offer to this responder
Age: 50s 👨 Male Other
It’s me. When it comes to writing something that catches the eye, it’s your sense of style—not the word count—that makes the difference. 1) Writing with the reader in mind, so that even a short message conveys the writer’s feelings 200%. 2) Putting the writer’s ego first, so that even a long message loses focus and fails to get the point across at all. I think the first type is much more likely to attract offers. The word count probably doesn’t matter that much.
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前澤(スタッフ)
前澤(スタッフ) Male Column Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
Maezawa from the President’s Office here with an answer as well. Men will usually look at the photos first, and if they like what they see, they’ll then check the woman’s profile. So in the initial phase, they aren’t looking at the comments. They’ll consider her while reading her profile, and at that point they may look at the comments too. If they find something interesting or intriguing there, it can sometimes lead them to make an offer. So if you have something that might catch someone’s attention, I think it’s a good idea to write it down, even if it ends up being a long comment. For example, a comment like: “I tripped and fell today.” might make someone think: “Huh? Oh…okay. She tripped and fell? I wonder what happened? Is this some kind of coded message? She couldn’t have just fallen for no reason. What does it mean? I don’t really get it.” Then they check again the next day, only to find a different comment… “Huh? Is this a diary? Is she writing a diary here? What is going on? Could it really be some kind of coded message? I have no idea what it means…” There have actually been women whose comments left men feeling that way. If I were a male member, I’d make an offer just to find out, but I’m sure men like that are in the minority. Still, I do think comments can sometimes provide that final push when a man is on the fence. So rather than worrying about the length, I’d recommend writing whatever you want to say.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Since I don’t really trust what’s written in the club’s comment section (lol), I place more emphasis on the “mistress profile” and comments from the women themselves. I really feel that the person’s own words matter most. Recently, the woman I made an offer to because I liked her had a comment section from her that was just over 600 characters long. She regularly updates her comments, is recommended by the staff, and seems to be someone who receives offers frequently. When I see phrases like, “Any allowance you’re comfortable with is fine,” I’m cynical enough to think, “Come on, could there really be a woman that convenient?” So once again, I feel that a person’s honest words are what really matter.
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フラグメーカー
フラグメーカー Male Column Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Column Writer “Flag Maker.” Probably, anyway. - If I meet the right person, I’d like to have a meaningful, long-term relationship with just one person. - Any allowance you feel comfortable with is perfectly fine. - I love kind, older men. I’m worried I might genuinely fall for one. Something like this might go over well, don’t you think? Probably, anyway(笑).
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a male member, and my username is Paper Airplane. Whether your profile is short, long, or even blank, I don’t think it affects the offers you receive. There are so many female members that it’s already difficult enough just browsing through them one by one.
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