I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Since I’m always quick to use the word “jaded,” I feel somewhat responsible, so I’ll share my thoughts. ^_^
When I describe someone as jaded, I generally mean someone who:
- Has become overly accustomed to men based on their own assumptions
- Is probably attractive or cute, has been fawned over since she was young, and can’t break free from that inflated sense of self
- Has accumulated negative experiences and learned to use them to her advantage
- Acts condescending, makes everything about herself, and is constantly focused on money
Something along those lines.
Among the girls doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), there are also girls who are the complete opposite of jaded.
For example, the sweet girl I’ve been seeing regularly understands her position and keeps an appropriate distance. Through acting, experience, and the atmosphere she creates, she can project an innocent, inexperienced vibe—while actually being secretly naughty in bed.
She’ll say, “I’m embarrassed,” while doing things like that… striking poses like that…
Ah, it’s the best. I’m grateful!
I believe girls like that ultimately connect with a papa (a male supporter) who offers good terms—in other words, they’re able to earn more.
Personally, I’m pretty simple-minded, so I want to completely surrender to a girl’s charms.
The other day, there was a TV show featuring Minami Tanaka and announcer Rinko Hironaka called “What’s wrong with being coy and calculating?” Their techniques are amazing. For me, they’re the ideal.
As someone like Fuu, who wants both the illusion of romance and quality sex, even if it’s all acting and technique, as long as it lasts only while we’re together…
Let this old guy have a wonderful dream.
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Regardless of whether it’s a dating club, I consider someone “jaded” when they’re not straightforward—when they make excuses and try to force their opinions on others, or lack the ability to cooperate.
They’re exhausting to deal with, not just in dating clubs.
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
Hello, Papua.
I’m not sure whether it’s the right word, but lately I’ve started to feel that knowing more than you need to can be exhausting…
The more you know, the further ahead you can get in that industry, but at the same time, there are plenty of things that wear you out precisely because you know too much.
I feel like I had a much stronger sense of being “rich” back when I was receiving around ¥10 million.
These days, I’m living a quiet life with my SPG Amex.
I’m Kamihikōki, a male member.
You hardly ever see women like this at a club…
Jaded…
They’re pessimistic and assume things won’t work out from the start…
So their actions become twisted, and they interpret everything in the worst possible way…
It’s not only the woman’s fault… The man can be part of the problem too. If he fails to communicate his feelings properly and she reads between the lines the wrong way, she may act in the opposite manner—and then they both keep doing the opposite of what the other intended…
No matter how much either of them tries to patch things up afterward, it only leads to deeper misunderstandings and an even wider gap between them…
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
Even women who’ve become jaded are honest in their own way, so you could say they’re cute and decent people. ^^
Whether you can find that cute is up to the man, though.
