I'm a Type C woman, and my profile says I'm prepared for it.
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I'm leaving the site.
Even if I could get over ¥100,000 for two hours,
I can't help thinking, “Ah… my body.
I've let it be slowly eaten away.”
The feeling that I became a sex worker before I even realized it, without ever being prepared to work in the sex industry…
It's terrifying.
No one is ever truly prepared for this.
Thank you for everything up to now.
This is a trauma I'll never forget.
If this is supposed to be “free dating,” then why not get rid of the A/B/C type system?
If it's really free, this kind of activity being bound by labels like these makes no sense.
Maezawa from the president’s office here, and I’ll answer your questions as well.
> If it were truly free, it wouldn’t make sense to run things while being restricted by these types.
If you felt restricted by your type, I think any misunderstanding could have been cleared up if you had consulted the staff first.
Your dating type can be changed freely at any time, and regardless of the type, you can always turn down an invitation from a man. Even if you’re type D, you can decline an invitation.
Conversely, even if you’re type A, if you feel that a particular man is someone you’d be comfortable with, you’re free to pursue something beyond dinner.
No one is restricting you. It really is completely up to you.
> If you’re calling it “free love,” then why not get rid of the A/B/C type system?
Even with dating types, everything is still voluntary, so there’s no connection between “free love” and the A/B/C type system.
That said, people do occasionally ask whether dating types are really necessary. For example, SALON doesn’t use dating types. During the interview, we ask what kind of relationship the woman is looking for, but since there’s no list of women for men to browse in the first place, there’s no need to set a dating type.
Not having dating types does seem like a good option, but I think some people—mainly men, I imagine—would find it inconvenient. So we don’t currently plan to get rid of them, although I can’t say what the future holds.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
Would you say what prompted you to join—or rather, what your purpose in joining was?
After taking part, I get the impression that things may not have turned out as you had hoped.
Once you realize it’s different from what you were looking for, I think leaving is the sensible thing to do.
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I’m Flagmaker, a columnist.
Akaboshi—that’s Sapporo Lager, right? My favorite.
That’s insulting to sex workers（笑）
A sex worker doesn’t even know who the customer will be. She walks into the room and finds some insanely obese, incredibly filthy old guy. At that moment, she has to steel herself and provide the service for the allotted time.
That’s the kind of world it is.
And it’s not just about providing the service. You have to manage the time, adjust the small-talk, guide him to the shower, prepare the bath towel, check the water temperature, wash his body, get the Isodine ready and have him gargle, gargle yourself in the meantime, quickly wash your own body, get out of the bath first, quickly dry yourself, prepare a bath towel and dry him off, guide him to the bed—and once things get started, he roughly gropes your breasts, aggressively fingers you, tongue-kisses you with his filthy mouth… Then the same old guy says, “I’ll request you again♡” And even after he leaves, another filthy old guy shows up two hours later.
That’s the kind of world it is.
And for an hour, you take home only 5,000 to 10,000 yen.
That’s what the world is like（笑）
You were starting to sound like a sex worker. The sex workers are going to get mad at you for that^^;
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I’m Marika, a female member.
This isn’t something you’re supposed to do only after “steeling yourself” for it in the first place. You just need to date men you genuinely find appealing.
That’s what happens when, like Romane, you join just to make a little pocket money even though you’re not desperate, then end up feeling like you had an adult relationship (intimate) with a creepy old man for the sake of money.
What’s done is done, so there’s no point regretting it now. Still, I think this is something women considering joining should read.
Also, you can change your type at any time, and the staff don’t force you into anything, so saying you’re “bound” by your type is a strange way of putting it.
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I’m Rin, a female member.
If you achieved one of your goals, then I’d say that’s a win. But if you continued to feel that way even after receiving that much allowance, perhaps it simply wasn’t the right place for you after all.
Also, this is just my personal opinion, but I feel that comments like “You seem to understand what you’re getting into” tend to do more harm than good. I’m not trying to criticize the staff, but I’ve always felt that wording like that shouldn’t be added so casually.
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It’s Joe here.
I think you’re making the right call. And I agree with your opinion, too. Knowing full well that I’m contradicting myself, I often use the word “resolve” on this forum, but whenever I see “I’m prepared” in someone’s profile, I can’t help thinking, “Really?” Resolve isn’t something that simple.
I hope you won’t fall into unnecessary self-loathing. If you live in Tokyo or Yokohama, I recommend Kiyoken’s shumai bento. The nutritional balance is a little lacking, so it would be a good idea to prepare a salad for yourself as well. If you enjoy beer, run to the convenience store, grab a can of Akaboshi, and start with a good swig.
Akaboshi is only available for a limited time, so don’t wait too long.
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