Has anyone ever had a man they’d been on good terms with for over a year buy them large items or offer to help tidy their room, seemingly as an excuse to come inside?
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Even if you have an adult relationship (intimate), I still wonder why he’d want to come in that badly.
And when she lives with her parents, doesn’t thinking, “Why would he want to go to her family home?” suddenly make you lose interest?
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I’m still very much a work in progress myself. I still have a long way to go before I can break free from the cycle of reincarnation and attain enlightenment.
Newcomers who have just entered this world often mistakenly believe that becoming closer to a woman they’re seeing means she’ll share her personal information with them—her address and so on.
I imagine this is a path almost everyone goes through.
Once you realize that it doesn’t really mean anything, you’ll be one step closer to enlightenment.
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I’m a lost and confused man in my 60s.
I’ve had someone come over to my place before. She asked to try my home cooking, so I was happy to oblige… I really felt like we were a couple… lol
She lived with her parents and not too far from my home, so I made it a personal rule not to go anywhere near that area if I could help it.
You don’t need to know everything about the woman—and even if you do find things out, you should never cause her any trouble… Isn’t that the bare minimum rule to follow as a man in this kind of relationship?
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I’m It’s Me, a male member.
Even if you go into the other person’s room, there’s not a bit of happiness to be found there.
It’s the same feeling as snooping through someone’s phone.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this as well.
Since they’ve been seeing each other for over a year, they’ve presumably grown quite close, and may simply want to share more of each other’s private lives than people normally do in a relationship.
In a typical romantic relationship, couples might visit each other’s homes, so I imagine she wants something similar.
But expecting that from someone who lives with their family is hard to understand.
Even if she lived alone, I think most women would still feel uncomfortable with that.
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I’m Meg, a female member.
I’ve never been told that, though.
I’m sure he’s very curious, but unfortunately, I wouldn’t call him a good papa.
I can understand how you feel…
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
I’ve never said that to a club woman.
Outside the club, when I’m dropping off a girl who clearly isn’t going to come upstairs, I often joke around by saying things like that.
On the way back from shopping for everyday necessities or getting food together, I’ll say, “Let’s cook hot pot together” or “Let’s eat ice cream together,” as I often do…
Since we’re in Osaka, she’ll usually fire back with a witty retort.
I’m not actually expecting anything either—I have no intention of going upstairs.
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