I always enjoy reading the Q&A here. I’m a newbie female member who registered two months ago.
Sometimes I suddenly feel unbearably lonely and incredibly sad, and even though I’m at home, I feel as if I’ve become homesick. It usually comes on suddenly, even though I thought I’d been having a really fun time.
I wanted to ask whether any of you ever feel this way, and what you do to cope when it happens.
Personally, when I feel that way, I start thinking about things like the origins of Earth and the universe, and somehow it all starts to feel unimportant and I cheer up.
I’m Meg, a female member.
We all feel that way sometimes, don’t we?
But for some reason, I find you kind of adorable.
You’ll be okay—you already know how to cheer yourself up.
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Joe chiming in late.
I’m supposed to be a lonely person, but I don’t think I feel the kind of loneliness you’re talking about. To an old guy like Joe, the loneliness young people like you (probably) describe sounds almost laughable. No, I’m not making fun of you. Every age has its own beauty, after all.
More importantly, I’d really like to hear your thoughts on the origins of Earth and the universe. If you don’t mind, let me make you an offer.
P.S. This may be none of my business, but Papuwa, have you ever tried a pipe? It’s the same kind of sigh as smoking, but you might see a new landscape through the smoke rising from a pipe.
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I’m BB7, a male member.
No one can live a life that’s 100% fun, positive, and cheerful all the time.
You feel lonely because you’ve been having fun, and you’re able to have fun because you’ve felt lonely. That’s just how it is.
Whether it’s happiness or hardship, emotions are only temporary.
If you simply acknowledge, “I’m feeling lonely right now,” and let it pass, you’ll naturally feel better again before long.
That’s just how it is. Thinking you always have to stay upbeat is far more unhealthy.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer too.
When you receive lots of offers, some men will also want to communicate frequently in everyday life. If you get involved with someone like that, they may be willing to meet you when you say, “I want to see you now.”
It’s hard to get through life completely on your own, so finding just one person like that can be a good idea. Or you could find several and keep yourself in a position where you can always meet someone.
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I’m Ittsu-Mii, one of the male members.
If you’ve found ways to cheer yourself up, then you probably don’t have anything to worry about. That’s great.
When I get depressed after being rejected by a woman, I immediately start looking for the next one.
If I make a mistake at work, I quickly set a new goal and start working toward it.
If I lose a match, I start with whatever I can do to make sure I win the next one.
When I feel myself starting to sink, I think the best cure is to become so absorbed in something else that I don’t even have time to feel depressed.
If that stops working, I might go see a doctor at a medical institution I trust. If it were depression or some other mental health issue, leaving it untreated based on my own judgment could make it worse, so if I were really struggling, I’d rely on modern medicine.
That said, mental health issues also depend on your compatibility with the doctor, and there are several treatment options. If those don’t line up, there’s always a possibility that treatment could actually make things worse in the worst-case scenario.
If I felt uneasy, I’d probably seek the opinions of several specialists—a second opinion, so to speak.
Before that, though, I hope you can find a way to cheer yourself up, just as you have.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
Sometimes, on my way home after seeing a woman from the club, I already start to feel empty.
Even though we were having fun just moments ago… it comes so quickly…
This reminds me of something Representative Kida wrote:
> Nobody actually wants to join a dating club.
> Who would want to get involved with an organization that’s so shady, expensive, and likely to be looked down on by women?
> I just want to go straight home and love only my wife and children.
I never really wanted money to be involved, yet I keep getting more and more drawn into it… It feels meaningful, but sometimes a sense of discomfort starts to well up…
I’m a man, so I end up seeking comfort in seeing women again… and once again, I find myself caught in a series of contradictions…
Maybe the times when I can immerse myself in work are when I’m able to concentrate without thinking about anything else.
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