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Jul 15, 2020 06:26
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Sorry to bring up personal preferences, but lately I’ve noticed that some female members use swimsuit photos or pose with unusually revealing outfits in their profiles, and it puts me off. It gives me more of an adult-entertainment vibe. When someone who’s Type A is that revealing, I really don’t understand it. I prefer a more natural kind of sex appeal—am I in the minority?
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Other
I’m BB7, a male member.
I’ve also wondered why Type A profiles sometimes include swimsuits, cleavage peeks, or shots showing a lot of leg.
It feels like being left hanging. Maybe guys with an extreme submissive streak enjoy that?
Personally, I don’t like it—it feels like being a fish caught with bait.
Showing a swimsuit or a lot of skin might lead more men to assume, “This girl is up for it!” That could also mean more men complaining, “The profile type was misleading!”
I guess it comes down to personal preference.
Meg
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Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, one of the female members.
I don’t think you’re in the minority.
Personally, I find myself thinking, “They must be young—I’m jealous,” when I see women using swimsuit photos on their profiles.
Papuwa-san’s swimsuit photos have a tasteful sexiness to them, so I like them (*^^*)
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
People who often visit adult entertainment venues may feel that swimsuit photos make someone look a little too much like that kind of service.
But switching to swimsuit photos clearly increases the number of offers. Even when they don’t immediately lead to an offer, the level of attention is completely different—you get reactions like, “I might make her an offer next time.”
That’s why the staff also work so hard to recommend swimsuit photos.
However, the more swimsuit photos there are, the more it feels like the attention they were originally meant to attract starts to diminish. Finding the right balance seems difficult.
I also understand feeling like, “Why would someone in category A be wearing a swimsuit?” But basically, women in category A don’t pass the interview.
Maybe she was accepted because she had the courage to put on a swimsuit.
If I were going on a date with a woman in category A, I think I’d find myself wondering what direction that motivation was really pointing in. Category A, yet swimsuit photos?
It’s so puzzling that if I invited her on a date and asked her about it, I feel like I’d hear all sorts of unusual stories.
> I prefer a more natural kind of sex appeal.
I understand how you feel, but if you take a photo naturally, it usually won’t come across as particularly alluring.
I think that kind of sex appeal probably comes from a combination of subtle gestures and poses, the timing and rhythm of the conversation, and so on.
Other
I’m Rin, a female member.
I imagine that women who have come from the adult entertainment or AV industry would want to attract the best-quality offers they can, so they probably make sure to have proper photos taken. It would be unpleasant to have nothing but perverted older men approaching them when this isn’t even their job.
P.S. Sorry—I’m still new to asking questions and wasn’t aware of the details in your profile. I’ve never met you in person, but I’m rooting for you from the sidelines. I’m sorry if I offended you.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
I basically agree. It’s like losing interest in an actress once she starts taking her clothes off. A modest, refined outfit builds more anticipation.