I previously asked whether being blocked on LINE meant we no longer had a connection.
Sorry I didn’t explain myself well. It seems I wasn’t understood correctly, so I’d like to add some details.
We’re both married, and we acknowledged that right after meeting. I believe we also clearly communicated that we wanted an adult relationship (intimate), that we were both able to respond to that, and that we would do so next time.
I sent him a thank-you message on LINE that day, adding that I’d like to see him again.
I was genuinely happy because he gave me much more allowance than I expected.
We exchanged several LINE messages that day, and of course I properly thanked him for the allowance as well.
During the exchange, he replied that he’d like to see me again soon. I responded appropriately and immediately told him that I was looking forward to it.
Our conversation ended with a LINE sticker from him, so two days later I sent another message thanking him and saying I was looking forward to our next meeting. That’s when I realized the message had never been read.
Even so, does this mean there’s really no chance of seeing him again…?
He was such a wonderful person, so I’m disappointed.
I don’t think I said or did anything rude, or messaged him at an inappropriate time, but…
I’m Rin, a female member.
I’m sorry about my earlier question. You had properly expressed your feelings and confirmed everything with each other.
If he blocked you after that, something unavoidable may have come up on his end.
I understand you may not know what to do with your feelings, but for now, try to move on and get ready for your next offer.
Perhaps his circumstances will change and he’ll contact you again.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
One of the things I enjoy is “making up the worst possible story on my own.”
In this case:
He seemed like a kind, gentlemanly person
→ But in reality, he may not have liked you that much
→ Still, because he’s a gentleman, he could offer safe, polite compliments and pay the allowance properly
→ Since he’s a nice person, he couldn’t bring himself to reject you directly
→ So he blocked you on LINE
【Conclusion】
You’re better off focusing on your next encounter rather than dwelling on past ones.
【Advice】
Replaying past mistakes won’t do you any good. Instead, start by valuing the people close to you more. Cherishing your next encounter is the best way to keep the same thing from happening again.
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I’m a lost man in my 60s.
How long has it been since she stopped reading your messages?
In my case, I’ve been seeing the same woman for over a year. She’ll agree to our next date, but lately she often leaves my replies unread... lol
I think she’s busy and doesn’t want it to look like she’s leaving me on read. She does keep her promises, so I suppose that’s fine in its own way... haha
> Of course, I responded appropriately and immediately told her I was looking forward to it.
> The conversation had ended with a LINE sticker from the man, so two days later I sent another message thanking him and saying I was looking forward to our next meeting. That’s when it remained unread.
Sending another message two days later saying “I’m looking forward to it” may have come across as a bit much to the man. It’s a delicate game, but I think it’s important to make the man chase you a little...
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Maezawa from the Business Planning Office here.
It sounds like you did respond properly.
If so, I imagine it was one of these:
1. He had already decided there probably wouldn’t be a next time, but couldn’t say so directly, so he exchanged a few messages with you and then blocked you.
2. His wife found out, leaving him no choice but to block you.
If it was ②, he may start reaching out again once things have calmed down, so there’s still a chance he’ll contact you. But if it was ①, it likely means you weren’t a good match, and I don’t think there will be a next time.
We can at least check whether the man left any negative feedback about you, so please contact me through the inquiry form next to the question box.
That said, unless something happens that makes either person angry at the other, most people don’t leave feedback, so it’s quite likely that nothing was submitted.
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I’m Kamihikoki, a male member.
Exactly. You did express your thanks properly in your messages that day, too.
I don’t think you were rude in any way.
But sometimes that’s just how things go, and all you can do is accept it as a cruel outcome…
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