I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
Regarding being identified, both the questioner’s concerns and Basil-san’s comments are absolutely right. The fact that there were 22 “likes” suggests that many people agreed.
What I’ve always felt about being identified is that, if an ordinary person is simply living an ordinary life and gets recognized, people tend to distrust whoever reveals how they found out, asking, “How did you know?” And if they have no connection to the person involved, it usually just passes by with a casual “Oh, I see.”
However, when someone’s social standing or income starts to differ from that of ordinary people, I think there’s almost as much “admiration” as there is “envy,” and those feelings can motivate people.
At the same time as thinking, “All right, I’ll work hard too!” people may also think, “Why them? Why only that person? Why can’t I be like that?”
So, those who are currently in such a position need to be careful not to have the rug pulled out from under them. Since everyone here seems to have a promising future, we all need to stay cautious.
Because this anonymous Q&A box is anonymous, only a small number of people at the club know who is who, and privacy and information management are in place, so I don’t think there’s any particular problem. But once you step outside this Q&A box, there may be people who try to use information maliciously, so we need to be careful.
Those who ask questions here and those who answer them are people who would probably never meet in everyday life. But as the saying goes, “Even a brush of sleeves is a bond from a previous life.”
Let’s take everyone’s opinions to heart and continue enjoying our club activities.（笑）
I’m Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office.
This isn’t really a question—it seems more like a message of support for the person answering.
I might be curious if I heard they’d appeared in adult videos, but basically, I feel that the mature thing to do is not to ask unless they bring it up themselves.
I’m Basil, a male member.
True, I’ve been shamelessly blabbing on here about all kinds of things that could identify me—not just details related to my appearances.
I know it’s none of my business, but I’m wondering whether his future employer might find out and rescind his job offer.
