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Jun 16, 2018 14:17
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Kida here with an answer.
Is there a way to make an offer to a woman who left the club several months ago?
→ I believe there is.
When a member leaves, we generally mark their profile for deletion—essentially instructing the system to keep it completely off the website—and then gradually delete their personal information after a certain period of time.
So it is possible to contact a female member who left several months ago, and we have done so in the past.
The tricky part this time is the phrase “several months ago.”
If she left saying, “I have various personal reasons, so please never contact me again,” then contacting her through the club months later would be difficult out of consideration for her feelings.
However, cases like that are rare.
If it has only been about a month since she left, it would be acceptable to say, “Someone is hoping to go on a date with you. I realize it may be rude to contact you after you left, but I wanted to reach out.”
After several months, she may have completely forgotten about the dating club. Her reaction could be either, “Oh, that sounds good!” or “I already left, so please stop contacting me. Don’t reach out again.”
Because of that, whether we can approach every woman depends on the circumstances at the time, but basically, offers can be made.
However, only members in the Black class can make this kind of request.
Is there no other option?
→ Other than contacting the woman as described above and properly explaining the situation if she responds, I can’t think of anything.