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Jun 25, 2020 22:20
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迷わない70代
Male
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パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中（笑）
Age: 70 or older
👨 Male
Former Universe member
I’m in my 60s and still trying to figure things out.
I’m surprised there are men who ask questions like that so directly.
I usually ask, “You’ve probably received a few offers before—have you ever had any unpleasant experiences?” Once they start saying things like, “Well, there was this one time…” I can generally get a pretty good idea. Haha.
Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member.
People who are kind enough to wholeheartedly pretend to be fooled are truly so sweet…
I can picture the whole scene (*^^*)
Oh, and I’d answer, “You’re the only one I’m accepting offers from.”
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Column Writer Flag Maker.
I sometimes ask questions like that as a lead-in when I’m in the mood to be completely fooled.
“So, how many people have you continued seeing after the initial offer?”
Woman: “I don’t really get that many offers.”
“You’re the only one I’ve continued seeing, Flag Maker.”
That’s usually the response, so I go:
“Really!? Wait, how is that possible when you’re this amazing!?”
“Yay! Yes! YATTA!! So I’m incredibly lucky to have made an offer that actually continued!? That means I’m one of the chosen men!!”
Then I look up at the heavens and say, “God! Thank youuuuu!!”
Then I turn to her: “Actually, I should be thanking you. Thank youuuuu!!”
I’m thinking, “She’s lying, and I’m lying too, right?” But if I just say, “Oh, I see. Huh,” the mood gets kind of awkward. So instead, I let myself be completely fooled with all my heart.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member.
When making an offer, if you ask the club, some staff members will give you a general idea, even if they keep things vague. You can also get a rough sense of how experienced someone is from her mannerisms and so on.
I understand how women may feel about the question, but regardless of the exact number, I personally appreciate it when they give me a reasonably straightforward answer. That said, because of this, I’ve hardly ever asked questions like that over dinner—I only ask occasionally after things are over in bed.
Also, I feel that disclosing the number of offers on a woman’s profile might benefit members. Generally speaking, if two women are equally attractive, the one with fewer offers is probably more popular, so this could help the roughly half of women who have received zero offers.
Conversely, even women with many offers probably still have a certain level of demand, since some members may value their adventurous spirit or the fact that they’re easy to talk to.
Other
I’m Rin, a female member.
I know all you gentlemen are curious about this too. When we’re eating or traveling, I can just grin goofily or give some random response.
But when I was caught off guard during the moment or while completely relaxed afterward, I couldn’t answer very well. I regretted not having prepared a few responses in advance.
I also think the kinds of answers everyone has been suggesting are probably good.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
Some men may dislike the idea of a woman seeing a lot of other men. But if she gets very few offers, some may also assume she isn’t all that popular.
So I think it’s best to brush it off with something like, “That’s a secret.”
Besides, even if you give a specific number, a man who thought he was making an offer to a popular woman may still think, “You must actually be getting more offers than that, right?” So I don’t think there’s much point in answering honestly either way.
In that case, I think it’s better not to give a clear answer on purpose.