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Jun 23, 2020 08:56
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When I was asked by people my age at group dates or while dating, I’d say, “Yeah, I am,” but I’m not sure how to respond at a dating club.
I’m sure the women registered here are all fairly popular, so I feel a little presumptuous answering that I’m popular when I’m probably just average. (Judging by the allowance amounts offered and the men’s level, I’ve gotten a general idea of where I stand.)
With people my age, that kind of response is accepted as Kansai-style banter, but with older men, would it be best—and least rude—to simply say, “Thank you,” and smile?
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Let me, Mamiya from the Tokyo Unit, answer as well.
I think “You must be popular, right?” is a kind of polite small talk. I often use “You seem like you’d be popular with papas, don’t you?” during interviews, too.
“Oh, I get told that a lot, but even when someone likes me, they’re never my type—it’s popularity gone to waste.”
How about steering the conversation toward, “I wonder what I could do to make you like me”?
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Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here as well.
> I feel it would be presumptuous to say I’m popular, even at the Standard level. (Judging from the allowance amounts offered and the men’s overall level, I’ve gotten a rough idea of where I stand.)
Thinking about how this connects to being told, “You must be popular,” perhaps they mean someone who:
- Didn’t look particularly impressive in their photos, but looked better in person
- Was really fun to talk to
If so, I think a good response to “You must be popular” would be something like:
“I get told that sometimes, but I’m really not popular at all. What makes me seem like I would be? I’d love to know what it’s like to be popular.”