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Jun 21, 2020 21:37
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I always find the columns and this Q&A box incredibly interesting to read.
I’m truly sorry to take up everyone’s time with my foolish question.
Since signing up, I’ve been on several dates, and thankfully I haven’t had any frightening experiences. I’ve been enjoying an exciting and fascinating side of life that I’d never known before.
Lately, though, I’ve started wanting to talk to someone about these feelings and the things I’m unsure about.
However, it’s not something I can discuss with my friends or family, and I want to keep it hidden.
My question is as follows:
“I really like the way Romane-san and Papuwa-san speak and respond. I’d love to have a conversation with them, but how could I talk with a female member? Is this anonymous Q&A box the best I can do? There probably aren’t any girls’ night events since they wouldn’t generate any profit, right…?
Thank you in advance.”
5 answers
Other
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
I often host roundtable discussions, and just as Flagmaker said, everyone lies.
Last time, there were five women, and although they all said they earned around ¥200,000 a month from their papas, as time went on, it turned out that two of them had annual incomes of over ¥10 million. LOL.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
This is just my guess, but if female members get together, the first meeting will probably end with everyone trying to gauge how much they should share(笑).
When you meet, you need to lead with some “gifts”—the questioner’s stories about her own mistakes, some juicy or trashy anecdotes, scary experiences, and so on. Otherwise, I doubt the other women will open up about themselves either.
“I want you to listen to my story.”
But if that’s all you have, you’ll probably end up getting charged for it(笑).
You need to build up a decent collection of stories to bring along first.
迷わない70代
Male
Send a reverse offer to this responder
パパ活歴11年目、回答者歴8年目の関西在住者。パパ活終活中(笑)
Age: 70 or older
👨 Male
Former Universe member
I’m a lost soul in my 60s.
I have a feeling you may be the person whose offer I regretfully canceled the other day. This may be presumptuous of me, but I’d really appreciate it if you could remain a member for a little while longer.
As for my answer, it may sound a bit rude to say “for now,” but becoming an answerer would give you a chance to share all kinds of thoughts and feelings.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member based in Seattle.
There may be some perks to becoming a regular contributor. Even with posting as infrequently as I do, you might naturally build connections with others on the site.
Like Mac’s columns, for example.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Maezawa from the Corporate Planning Office here.
How can you…
Hmm…
I think your only option is to get to know them somehow.
Why not start by becoming a Q&A contributor?
Becoming a contributor doesn’t mean you’ll automatically get to talk with them, but as you read their answers and gradually get to know each other, there’s a small—very small—chance you might eventually get the opportunity to chat.
You can apply to become a contributor here:
https://universe-club.jp/help/apply/
Alternatively, if a male member is connected with them, you could mention it when that man sends you an offer. It might lead to a conversation about going on a group date sometime…